In my 17 years of marriage, I can honestly say that connection is always just around the corner. In couple after couple that I have coached, I've witnessed miraculous changes in a matter of minutes.
The tick is simple, yet profound (and not necessarily easy to do).
We live in our own fog of false reality that has been produced by our desire to PROTECT ourselves from hurt.
The voice that says, "My spouse thinks I'm stupid" or "They don't care about me" or even "I'll never be good enough for them" damages our ability to have true intimacy and connection.
I help couples step out of the fog and into the TRUE reality: that you are unconditionally supported, admired and respected by your spouse.
p.s. if you don't believe me, let me convince you 🙂
In my popular online program, 30 Days to Wanting it More, I help married women who want to want sex again (or for the first time)! You can find out more information here.
I also work 1-1 with couples who would like extra support through the "30 Days" program or who want to get back on the same team again. You can find out more information here.
My most exciting program is called the Marriage Mastery Club. It's a year long, semi-group program that is perfect for couples who are beyond putting out fires and want to have deep intimacy, crazy fun and unconditional support from one another. You can find out more information here.
I was 17, he was 23. Yes, I took my husband to prom.
We struggled as we grew up together. Mainly, we fought about sex. I didn't want it, he wanted it more... you know the drill.
Which landed us in Counselling, Therapy, Coaching, and many workshops..
I read book after book on marriage and sex and eventually... I trained as a Marriage Coach myself.
After not being able to find the solution for my "low libido", I created my own program and not only fixed my own situation but now I help hundreds of other women do the same too.
And in the process, I became fascinated by the male brain (which I find to be extremely underutilized in marriage!) and now spend a lot of time explaining to wives how to work with their husband's biological programming.
My coolest feature is my sidekick and husband extraordinaire, John the Civil Engineer. We have two daughters, 8 and 9 who still like hanging out with us 🙂
We live on Vancouver, Island in Canada amongst forests, rivers, lakes and the big beautiful Pacific Ocean.
My Office is a converted garden shed which is a perfect little sanctuary from my
chaotic busy household!
I'm a highly sensitive person which means I'm overwhelmed 80% of the time but the creativity, passion and insight that comes from this trait makes it all worth it.
Janna Denton-Howes is a professionally trained Marriage Coach who is known for her popular program, 30 Days To Wanting It More". Affectionately called, "Chief Libido Officer" and "Husband Whisperer" by her participants and coaching clients, Janna not only helps married women take sex off their to-do lists but brings couples back to each other.
One of her greatest accomplishments in life has been to beat the odds of teenage marriage and still be married to her prom date! When she isn't working from her garden shed office, you can find her having a beach fire with her husband, John, and their two daughters or curled up with a book about the male brain.
Check out her stories, tips and inspiration at jannadentonhowes.com and learn how connection is just around the corner.