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Helping women, married to men, want and enjoy it more in the bedroom.

Want to want IT with hubby..

(but   just  don't)?

Many women feel this way...

Even though they really love their husbands, intimacy just feels like a chore.

Furthermore...

They feel resentful that their husbands want it and yet guilty for not wanting to do it.

There is a lot of tension after years of frustration with this issue.

They wonder if they’re broken because they don’t get sensual feelings.

And, deep down, they're worried about the damage this lack of intimacy is doing to their marriage. They're completely uninterested in a stale marriage, forcing it to happen or living like roommates.

It may feel hopeless right now but, I promise, there is so much hope!

This is so common!

“I actually want intimacy now!"

Kendall is 32 and has been married for 9 years. Before Wanting it More, she felt frustrated, discouraged, broken and resigned to the fact that she would have a lifetime of arguments about intimacy in her marriage.

In 2 short months, her marriage has completely changed and their intimate experiences now embrace unity, connection and wholeness.

They have regular intimate encounters that she is excited for and wants and she has discovered that she isn’t “broken” after all.

Listen to her story:

 The thing is, women know that intimacy is an important part of their relationship.

So why don't they want it?

They've probably wondered, "What's wrong with me?"

The truth is, intimacy is meant to be good for THEM, but unless it’s designed properly, they’ll continue to dread it.

 The thing is, women know that intimacy is an important part of their relationship.

So why don't they want it?

They've probably wondered, "What's wrong with me?"

The truth is, intimacy is meant to be good for THEM, but unless it’s designed properly, they’ll continue to dread it.

 

Intimacy is meant  to be a nourishing experience. 

Pleasure is a birthright.

A woman's body works just fine, it’s the cultural messages, lack of education and relationship dynamics that are the issue. 

No more mental gymnastics!

It’s time to shake the worry and frustration and instead feel relief and freedom.

   There are 2 things that will increase sensual desire 100% of the time:

SAFETY & EMPOWERMENT

There are 2 things that will increase sensual desire 100% of the time: 

SAFETY & EMPOWERMENT

How would it feel to...

  • Have fun with without pressure to advance things?
  • Have fond memories of a last intimate experience?
  • Know dislikes and likes and feel in control of  desire?
  • Be connected and close?

How would it feel to..

  • Have fun with your without pressure to advance things?
  • Have fond memories of the last intimate experience?
  • Know likes and dislikes and be in control of desire?
  • Be connected and intimate?

I'm Janna Denton-Howes, Desire Coach

and Creator of Wanting it More.

When it comes to not “wanting it”, I understand it all. 

For the first 14 years of my marriage, I would have way rather cleaned the toilet than hop into bed with my husband. Sure, once my engine was revved up a bit, it was okay(ish), but getting there took a serious effort. 

We fought about intimacy all the time and I was done feeling used, pressured and like I was the one with the problem.

After years of unsuccessfully trying to find the solution to this frustrating and lonely challenge, I eventually developed my own methodology to solve this issue once and for all.

What I discovered not only completely fixed the desire mismatch in my marriage but has helped over 1000 women do the same.



I'm Janna Denton-Howes, Desire Coach and  Creator of Wanting it More.

When it comes to not “wanting it”, I understand it all. 

For the first 14 years of my marriage, I would have way rather cleaned the toilet than hop into bed with my husband. Sure, once my engine was revved up a bit, it was okay(ish), but getting there took a serious effort. 

We fought about intimacy all the time and I was done feeling used, pressured and like I was the one with the problem.

After years of unsuccessfully trying to find the solution to this frustrating and lonely challenge, I eventually developed my own methodology to solve this issue once and for all.

What I discovered not only completely fixed the desire mismatch in my marriage but has helped over 1000 women do the same.


Wanting it More was created  out of hundreds of hours working with women, married  to men, who felt  like intimacy was a chore.


I’ve spent hundreds of hours as a Desire Coach helping married women turn the frustration of not wanting it into the satisfaction of knowing exactly how to get in the mood.

What I’ve realized it this: the advice that most other relationship and intimacy experts are giving is all wrong (and sometimes even harmful).

Forcing yourself to “just do it” for the sake of your marriage or placing so much emphasis on "mind blowing" orgasms leaves most women feeling icky and pressured. 

There’s a better way...

Let me introduce

For 8 weeks, I will guide women to…

  • Find pleasure in  everyday life.
  • Trust what feels good (and what doesn’t).
  • Connect with the body.
  • Comfortably talk about intimacy.
  • Create important boundaries.
  • Explore an intimate connection.

$3088 USD

$ 997.00 USD

(Full Payment)

$3088 USD

$ 347.00 USD

(3 monthly payments)

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For 8 weeks, I will guide women to…

  • Find pleasure in  everyday life.
  • Trust what feels good (and what doesn’t).
  • Connect with the body.
  • Talk about intimacy.
  • Create important boundaries.
  • Explore an intimate connection.

"Even after just one week of the program, I have more positive feelings about intimacy and our time together. If you are considering the program, give it a chance. You have nothing to lose!"

-Danielle

"Even after just one week of the program, I have more positive feelings about intimacy and our time together. If you are considering the program, give it a chance. You have nothing to lose!"

-Danielle

“My pleasure matters!”

Dr. Laura Froyen is a family and marriage therapist, who hit some roadblocks in her own marriage. She struggled to find lasting solutions when seeking help from from other doctors and therapists, and turned to Wanting it More for help. 

Not only did Laura find confidence in Janna's professionalism and expertise, but her marriage radically changed. Communication improved, connection increased, and she finally felt free to express her desires like never before!

Hear more from Laura below...


Here's what's included in Wanting it More!

WEEKLY VIDEOS

Short videos to guide participants each week.

WORKSHEETS

Simple worksheets to support the action steps.

PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP

A community of amazing women.

GROUP COACHING CALLS

Live weekly calls for profound support.

Plus, get lifetime access to the program materials!

Don't worry about rushing through the program or forgetting everything.

Get LIFETIME ACCESS to the video program plus all updates. 

Unlimited opportunities to continue this journey.

BONUS #1

Husband Program

A complete video course to help husbands understand what their wife's needs are in and out of the bedroom.

Created and delivered by John and Janna.

Value: $997

BONUS #2

Conflict To Connection

Learn the most effective communication tool that my clients LOVE so that you can transform conflict into connection every time.

Value: $297

BONUS #3

Secrets of the Male Brain 

Shockingly simple, clear and practical ways to talk a husband so that he can hear and respond without shutting down, getting defensive or exploding.

Value: $297

Here is everything that is included...

Wanting It More

8 week online course. 8 live group coaching calls. Private Facebook group. Tools to
increase libido in a way that is empowering and feels natural. 

Value: $1497

Husband Program

Everything husbands needs to know to understand and support their wives while becoming a
sophisticated responder in the bedroom.

Value: $997

Conflict To Connection

The most important tool to transform potential conflict into connection every time.

Value: $297

Secrets of the Male Brain

Understand how a husband’s brain works to be able to talk to him in a way that he can listen
and listen so he can talk.

Value: $297

TOTAL PROGRAM VALUE OF $3088

TODAY ONLY...

$3088 USD

$ 997.00 USD

(Full Payment)

$3088 USD

$ 347.00 USD

(3 monthly payments)

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Want to know all the details?

Here is a quick tour of each week.

WEEK ONE: CULTIVATE COMPASSION

The messages that we have received from culture about intimacy and our bodies has lead us to feel broken, ashamed and confused as women. This week is about taking the blame off ourselves and learning the legitimate reasons why we feel what we feel.

WEEK TWO: ESTABLISH SAFETY

For women, the prerequisite for pleasure is safety and in this week we explore all the unexpected ways to increase comfort, including boundaries, equity and attachment. It’s time to take the pressure off and create the right environment to thrive in.

WEEK THREE: TRUST INTUITION

Sensual scenes on TV, romance novels and even comments from our friends can create a very clear formula for how intimacy “should” look like in our minds. This week we develop the skill of looking inward for the answers as we redefine the role of intimacy in our lives. 

WEEK FOUR: PRIORITIZE  PLEASURE

The word “pleasure” has become synonymous with sensual pleasure and, in turn, can feel shameful and dirty. This week, we reclaim the word, as well as our birthright to experience it, as we explore ways to integrate it into our daily rhythm and grow our pleasure capacity.


WEEK FIVE: CONNECT WITH THE BODY

We can feel estranged from our bodies for a variety of reasons including pain, weight gain, health issues and shame... none of which are our fault. Connecting with the body is a chance to develop a whole new relationship based on appreciation, compassion and awe.

WEEK SIX: EXPLORE AN INTIMATE CONNECTION

Having a structure for the sensual experience helps with practicing the paths of Wanting it More with confidence. This week, learn the perfectly designed roles to enjoy satisfying intimate encounters without pressure or discomfort.

“My life is 100% changed ... I feel free!”

Angie had tried everything and spent a ton of money on trying to fix her low libido before joining Wanting it More. After supplements, books, teas, oils, doctors and health changes she was skeptical that anything would work.

After going through the program, her life is 100% changed. Her marriage is stronger, their communication is better than ever and they don’t fight about intimacy anymore. She feels free!

Listen to Angie’s story...

The warmth, support and connection in our Facebook Community is amazing.

Participants find that this is a great place to feel safe to have those types of conversations not common anywhere else. Come here to feel normal, understood and receive solid advice from real women.

We also have a lot of fun :) 

"The ladies in the Facebook Group are so supportive. There is no judgement. I truly believe the Facebook Group was a huge part of healing for me. Just knowing you are not alone and being able to freely talk about your struggles and ask questions is a huge deal. Plus, we are hilarious!"

-Jill

"The ladies in the Facebook Group are so supportive. There is no judgement. I truly believe the Facebook Group was a huge part of healing for me. Just knowing you are not alone and being able to freely talk about your struggles and ask questions is a huge deal. Plus, we are hilarious!"

-Cassidy

This program has worked for hundreds of women.

The most common question I get is..

"Will this work for ME?"

The methodology I teach in Wanting It More works for all women because ALL women benefit from:

  • Feeling safe and in control in order to experience pleasure, relaxation and connection. 
  • Having zero guilt or expectations from their husbands.
  • Developing a compassionate and appreciative relationship with their bodies.  
  • Not feeling pressure to “get in the mood” but rather seeing intimacy as a gentle, self-care practice.
  • Gaining confidence to learn how to communicate about intimacy.

“Our marriage trajectory has radically changed!”

Jessica’s marriage wasn’t in a very good place and they were looking into therapy options when she found Wanting it More. She felt resentful towards her husband and didn’t feel any desire for intimacy - even questioning if she was asexual.

After going through the program, she has realized that she IS a sensual being. She has the capacity for desire and looks for new ways to explore pleasure, vulnerability and connection with her husband.

Their marriage trajectory has radically changed.

Listen to her full story:

$3088 USD

$ 997.00 USD

(Full Payment)

  • A week by week video training program
  • 8 group coaching calls
  • 8 Facebook Lives
  • Lifetime access to program videos

$3088 USD

$347.00 USD

(3 monthly payments)

  • A week by week video training program
  • 8 group coaching calls
  • 8 Facebook Lives
  • Lifetime access to program videos

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Wanting it More works for all different life circumstances:

  • Having young kids and perhaps still breast-feeding and/or co-sleeping.
  • Experiencing painful experiences or no climax.
  • Struggling with wacky hormones, medication side effects or chronic illness.
  • Wanting a safe, comfortable experience that works with core values.
  • Feeling disconnected and experiencing communication challenges.
  • Enjoying “okay” intimate experiences but wanting it to be better.

Worried about  the hubby?

Lots of women think, “Yes, I need this program!” but then their second thought is, “How do I talk to my husband about it?”

It may feel like purchasing this course will increase the expectation to want it more or that hubby's feelings will be hurt.

Ultimately, there are 3 choices:

Worried about  the hubby?

Lots of women think, “Yes, I need this program!” but then their second thought is, “How do I talk to my husband about it?”

It may feel like purchasing this course will increase the expectation to want it more or that hubby's feelings will be hurt.

  • OPTION #1: TALK TO HUBBY
    He may be VERY receptive! Use this guide to help with the conversation
  • OPTION #2: Don't talk to HUBBY... yet.
    Many women in the program decide that they prefer to quietly go through the course on their own, bringing him into the loop when they are ready.
  • OPTION #3: Don't change.
    The third and final option is to do nothing but... will things be okay if they stay the same?

“We have more frequent & fulfilling intimacy!”

Mike’s wife took Wanting it More and before the program, he felt frustrated that he was constantly pursuing her and was never being pursued. He felt unloved, unwanted and disrespected even when they did "do it", because it felt like an obligation on her part.

As his wife continued with Wanting it More, their communication improved dramatically and he was able to understand what she was going through and needed.

Now he thinks their intimacy is awesome - more frequent, fulfilling and fun.

Listen to his story here:

“We're closer than we've ever been!”

Before Callum's wife took the program, their relationship felt stale and intimacy was a one-sided routine. He was disappointed with his wife’s lack of desire and wanted his wife to actually enjoy the sensual experience.

After reluctantly agreeing to sign up for the program, Callum was pleasantly surprised when he began to see positive growth. Communication improved greatly, his wife's confidence soared and he started to see himself - and the world - in a brand new way.

This new learning changed him and his marriage forever.

Check out his story below:

“THIS PROGRAM WORKS! Learning how to effectively keep her feeling safe and less pressured, will lead to more intimacy!”

-Nate

“We are closer in our whole relationship, and our intimate relationship is better than it has ever been!”

-Jason

“I feel more connected to my wife than I’ve felt for a very long time… This has been the single best investment we’ve made in the health of our relationship.”

-Bill

“We have gone from your typical story of "I want it; she doesn't" to both of us enjoying intimacy regularly!”

-Simon

What if it was possible to feel 100% relaxed and happy with intimate experiences by this time next year?


Now's the time! We start soon...

$3088 USD

$ 997.00 USD

(Full Payment)

  • A week by week video training program
  • 8 group coaching calls
  • 8 Facebook Lives
  • Lifetime access to program

$3088 USD

$347.00 USD

(3 monthly payments)

  • A week by week video training program
  • 8 group coaching calls
  • 8 Facebook Lives
  • Lifetime access to program

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"Because of this program, my husband and I have grown so much closer, and i'm enjoying and looking forward to intimacy!"

-Amy

"Along with helping our intimacy, it has helped both me and my husband grow as people and has reunited us to save our marriage."

-Judy

"It sounds too good to be true but it's not!! The ideas in the program are truly radical. I have learned so much, and cried many happy tears."

-Alice

"This course goes right to the heart of our issues, and is not a temporary fix that will one day need to be replaces by yet another course or idea. This is the real deal, creating a lifetime of authentic intimacy."

-Nancy

"If it feels like drowning with no way out, this program is the life raft we've all been searching for!"

-Catie

"This program has given me the reassurance that my marriage is going to make it. Without a doubt, it has empowered our marriage to become the best it can be."

-Brandi

Imagine, 8 weeks from now...

  • Laughing in the bedroom and enjoying a pressure-free moment of intimacy.
  • Confident to talk about intimacy without a hint of shame or embarrassment.
  • Feeling acceptance, joy and excitement in all intimate experiences.
  • Free of resentment and empowered to communicate needs and desires, in and out of the bedroom.
  • Connected to an amazing, supportive, encouraging and wise group of women!

"This program is the best investment in our relationship that we've ever made."

-MK, Program Participant

"This program is the best investment in our relationship that we've ever made."

-Mindy

Frequently Asked Questions

Does my husband need to be involved?

This program is specifically designed for women to complete on their own although I provide additional supportive videos for your husband if he wants to be involved.

How long do I have access to the material?

For as long as the program exists (which I plan on being for a very, very long time.)

Will I feel uncomfortable?

Many women are concerned that I'll be asking them to do things that they feel uncomfortable with.

Have no fear! This program is not about "spicing things up", it's about learning how to listen to deep intuition to feel even more comfortable after the program.

Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?


Although I don't specifically speak about religious beliefs in the program (to make sure everyone feels safe and included), it is my personal belief that sex is Divinely created and designed specifically for the purposes of unity, joy and bonding in a marriage.

I ALWAYS encourage everyone to trust what feels good first and follow my recommendations second.

Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

While I am not a physician or physiotherapist (which I will always encourage you to go see), this program has helped many women who experienced physical pain with intercourse. Now they experience pleasure and relaxation in the sexual experience, even though it might not always involve penetration.

Will this help if i've experienced trauma?

This program creates a structure of safety and support in the sexual experience so I find that most women who have experienced trauma greatly benefit from it. However, it is not within the scope of this group program to heal trauma.

Do you have a refund policy?

No. Due to the nature of this program, we do not have a refund policy. Only invest in this course if it's possible to put in the effort and time.

Have more questions?

I’m here to help!
Email me at janna@jannadentonhowes.com

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