Do you want to want
sex with your husband...
but just don't?

If the answer is yes - welcome! You’re in great company.

As a marriage coach, I’ve helped thousands of women with low libido and this is what I hear them say:

“I love my husband but sex feels like a chore.”

“I don’t understand why I can’t get in the mood.”

“Intimacy is the one thing we fight about.”

“I want to enjoy his touch but I cringe when he comes too close.”


As someone who’s personally experienced a lack of desire, I understand the frustration of not knowing why this is happening and how to fix it.

Being told to “just do it”, “buy some lingerie” or “have a glass of wine” can feel invalidating and lonely. 

I want to offer you something different.
Something that can actually help. 

Next Round Starts
June 2024

Join the waitlist!

Sex can feel complicated, confusing and mysterious (but not in a good way).

Wanting It More can provide a path towards genuine connection and intimacy, even if that feels impossible right now. 


Without pressure.

Without guilt.

Without compromising your comfort.

Wanting It More is an online, 8 week group coaching program specifically designed to help women, married to men, want and enjoy sex again
 (or for the first time)...

I believe that it’s important to learn from someone who can say, “I’ve been there”.

No matter how hard I tried to find support to increase my libido through books, professionals, workshops and supplements, nothing worked in the long term and soon I was back to feeling broken.

Inspired by seeking marriage support in my own relationship, I was drawn to train as a Marriage Coach through the Relationship Coaching Institute and soon began working with couples. 


This training, combined with a decade of personal research and
experimentation, eventually led to my own healing and the framework
I teach in Wanting It More.





Wanting It More was developed after years of struggle in my own marriage.






I’ve been honored to have had the privilege of sharing this framework with thousands of women over the last six years and witness their amazing growth as they put it into practice. Women like Sara, Shelley and Dr. Laura...

"I'm hopeful and excited"

After 10 years of marriage, Sara was burnt out and  felt like she had tried everything, resigning herself to living a life in which sex didn’t work for her relationship.
 
Partway into the program she had the most honest conversation about sex that she had ever had with her husband. Since then they have seen such an improvement. She is so grateful that she tried one more thing before giving up.

"The best investment I have made"

In her sixties, Shelley was hesitant to try Wanting It More, feeling she might be too old and wondering if it would be worth it at her age. 
 
To her pleasant surprise, the program worked wonders on her mindset and her marriage and she says it’s one of the best investments she’s ever made.  She's let go of the guilt and experiences true connection and pleasure!

"The most trauma-informed program"

Dr. Laura Froyen is a family and marriage therapist, who hit some roadblocks in her own marriage,  and struggled to find lasting solutions when seeking help from other doctors and therapists.
 
Not only did Laura find confidence in Janna's professionalism and expertise, but her marriage radically changed. Communication and connection improved and she finally felt free to express her desires like never before!



Women tell me they think something is wrong with them.

 

It makes sense they would make this assumption considering the terrible advice just a Google search away that screams, "it’s all your fault!" 

It can feel frustrating to have no idea why you don’t want sex and many women eventually feel a deep and vague sense they are just broken.

And feeling broken can feel hopeless. 


 

Good news, you aren’t broken!

What I’ve discovered is that there are 3 Requirements of Desire that are often overlooked (that have nothing to do with how well your body is working).

Cultural messages run deep and often unconsciously affect our libido.

They can also limit our enjoyment and ability to understand our bodies and communicate effectively with our partners. The messages that we receive about sex, our bodies, and pleasure from culture, media, and our childhoods can make a huge impact on our sex lives.

1. Unlearning of toxic cultural messages

3 Requirements of Desire

We are sorely miseducated and undereducated about our body and sex drive.

How to find pleasure, what to expect desire to feel like and how to experience true satisfaction (not just a facade of the real thing) are mysteries that we are left to piece together from romance novels, hasty comments, and sex scenes.  

2. Understanding your body & preferences

Women must feel emotionally and physically safe with their partners to want and enjoy sex.

There is a spectrum of safety from 0-100% and even in healthy marriages, unwanted comments, looks and touches can put women on the defensive, which shuts down desire. Through understanding your body and communicating your needs, you can improve this. 

3. Emotional & physical safety with your husband

When these 3 Requirements for Desire are practiced, it can provide a framework for genuinely wanting and enjoying sex.

While this process is more involved than taking a pill, watching a hot sex scene or using tingling gel to get going, it addresses the root causes of low libido which means it’s not just a temporary solution.

This is not a quick fix. it’s a lifelong journey of discovery which I can help you start. 

“When my husband 'got' what had been going on for me - society's pressure, his pressure, my own shame and belief that there was something wrong with me, his apology was so validating and freeing.”

“My thoughts have changed dramatically. I have practical phrases and tools to use and the nightly stress is GONE. COMPLETELY GONE.” 

L.C. 

K.M.

A.h.

J.R.

S.L.

K.Y.

Less pressure

Better communication

Deeper connection

Less pain

More sexual feelings

s.a.

Increased frequency

Less anxiety

d.h.

S.S.

Decreased shame 

More non-sexual affection

“The pressure and anxiety has been taken off of me. My husband has learned to back off and give me the space I need, which has actually made me WANT to come to him.” 

“After not having any type of sexual activity with my husband for 4 months I am amazed that we have enjoyed very emotional and physically intimate moments.” 

“Before, every conversation about sex would feel like walking on egg shells but now we can address it all head on and with much more vulnerability.”

Increased libido

“During the program, I was able to unexpectedly, have pain free (and really good) penetrative sex for the first time ever.” 

“I actually WANT to do it and I look forward to our time together. I NEVER imagined eight weeks ago that the thought of having sex would actually make me smile.” 

“My turning point was a very small, yet very big moment. I, for the first time in ages, initiated a hug. And I had never felt more tingly feelings in a hug since probably my dating years. It was powerful, and for the first time, I felt hope that things could change for the better.”

“There is no more pressure and I can genuinely enjoy the things that I love (such as a back tickle) without the fear of things escalating.” 

“Growing up very religiously, I had developed a lot of negative thinking about sex in general and my own sexuality. This program has given me a whole new understanding of women's sexuality. I’ve realized that I AM a sexual being.”

Many women tell me that after years of trying to increase their desire, Wanting It More finally gave them a clear way forward. 
 

While everyone’s outcomes look different, here is an example of the results you may see from Wanting It More (taken directly from participant’s words):
 

A.h.

A big part of why Wanting It More often gets great results for women is because of the way it’s structured.

After years observing my own experience with getting help, listening to hundreds of women share their stories, as well as experimenting with how the program is offered, I’ve landed on what I believe is a simple yet powerful formula for healing low desire.

Education (books, videos, or articles) on its own can leave you confused with how to customize the information for your unique situation. 

Support (counselling, coaching, or therapy) on its own can leave you feeling like you’re the only one with the problem. I believe women heal best with “me too” reassurance and it’s why I no longer offer private coaching.

Community (forums, support circles, or online groups) on its own can quickly become a case of confusion without a clear path forward.














Education + Support + Community = Healing

Education
 +
Support
 +
Community
 =
Healing

A women-only private online community (hosted on Mighty Networks) to share common challenges, get validation, and talk about sex in an understanding setting.













When education, support and community are combined, it offers a step-by-step process, customized for your unique situation, wrapped in life-giving validation and reassurance.


Here's how these 3 elements are offered in Wanting It More:















Each WIM Path includes a video class for women. All classes are recorded and available to watch at any time, including once the programs ends. 














Weekly videos and workbooks

Mondays (1 pm or 5 pm Pacific): Women are offered two times each week to get on a live group coaching call with me to answer your questions and get one-on-one support.

Coaching Call recordings are available to watch for 12 weeks, after which time they are deleted to protect your privacy.













Live group coaching calls

Private online community

Your husband also gets a complete education program geared specifically to his needs.

Men have even fewer places to talk about this stuff than women do. That's why we have a husband-only private online community (hosted on Mighty Networks) to encourage men to share their feelings, ask questions, and realize they aren't alone while inside of a safe space.













Each WIM Path includes a video class for your husband to watch, to help him clearly understand his role in the process. All classes are recorded and available to watch at any time, including once the programs ends. 














Weekly videos for him 

Tuesdays (1 pm & 5 pm Pacific): Your husband is offered two times each week to get on a live group coaching call with me to answer his questions and get one-on-one support.

Coaching Call recordings are available to watch for 12 weeks, after which time they are deleted to protect your privacy.













Live group coaching calls

Private online community for men

I realize it can be intimidating sharing new knowledge with your husband and hoping he'll understand and be supportive. That's why I've recently added an entire education stream specifically for your husband, so he can learn on a parallel path of support along with you. 

I want to remove the emotional labour of you having to educate him. I'll be teaching and coaching both of you separately so you gain clarity and communication skills to enable you to  succeed on this journey together.   

Justin and his wife once had a playful relationship with enjoyable sex. After the birth of their child 10 years ago, his wife experienced a painful birth injury and their sex life dwindled away, leaving Justin feeling conflicted, unloved, and resentful.

Justin jumped in feet first to learn how he could support his wife in WIM. Together they put the pieces together and they now experience incredibly fulfilling and connected experiences. Justin feels better as a partner and as a man. 

"Our sex life is better than it’s ever been before!"

watch justin's story

Prior to discovering WIM, Rob experienced a sense of not being wanted, unloved, and under-appreciated. He associated his wife not wanting sex to her not loving him. Despite attempting therapy as a couple, they found it ineffective and observed no positive changes.

Through WIM, he discovered the nuanced layers of intimacy beyond physical connection. He gained insights into his wife's desires and needs, and the communication barrier that had stood between them was dismantled.

"WIM is truly life changing."

watch Rob's story

Wanting It More 

You want to increase your desire to keep your husband in the relationship. (While WIM has saved marriages, it is not designed to be the last resort).

Your communication is tense, infrequent and/or explosive.

You are extremely uncomfortable sharing in a group setting.

You’re looking for specific religious guidance (this program is non-religious although you are free to share your personal experiences).

You’re experiencing emotional, physical or sexual abuse from your partner.

You’re looking for a quick fix. While the program is 8 weeks long, it often takes an average of 1 year to solidify everything you will learn. Consider this the beginning of a life-long practice.


is likely not a fit for you if:

Wanting It More 

You’re a woman and currently married to a man (this includes long-term committed relationships and folks who identify as bi-sexual. Just a heads up, I use the words “husband” and “wife” throughout the program.)

You are the spouse with lower desire.

Your marriage is in a relatively healthy place.

You have emotional space and time in your schedule (approx. 4 hours per week).

You’re receiving additional support for mental health issues if you require it.

You’ve addressed major sexual trauma with a professional. (While this program provides a tremendous amount of safety in the sexual experience, it is not designed for trauma healing).

You feel safe enough with your husband to make direct requests and to express your needs without fear of repercussion.

is likely a good fit for you if: 

If you’re interested to join the program but have more questions,
here is what I can offer:


A personal chat with me to help you determine if this is a good fit for you right now.

Please email janna@jannadentonhowes.com
 to book a 15 minute call. 









Join the waitlist!

I recognize that systemic injustices have disproportionately affected BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, and People of Colour) communities. Given that my program has historically been a predominantly white space, I'm taking steps to be part of the societal change leading to more equity. One such step is offering a $300 discount for BIPOC individuals.

I'm also committed to ongoing growth by learning from diversity, equity, and inclusion experts, as well as our community members.

I'm striving to be a welcoming and inclusive space, respectful of all lived experiences. If you identify as BIPOC and are interested in participating, please email me confidentially at janna@jannadentonhowes.com to receive your coupon code.

BIPOC Discount

The next round of Wanting It More starts June 2024.


If after 2 weeks of the program, you don’t feel like it’s a good fit, I will give you a 100% refund, minus processing fees ($50).

Please take time to read this whole page and book a call before joining if you aren’t sure, as having people leave the program can be disruptive to the group.







My refund policy:







You have lifetime access to the program materials and unlimited updates as they come out in the future. 










If you’re interested to join the program but have more questions,
here is what I can offer:


A personal chat with me to help you determine if this is a good fit for you right now.

Please email janna@jannadentonhowes.com
 to book a 15 minute call. 









If this feels like a big investment, here’s some context that may help:

Have questions? Book a call to chat!






Bonus #1

Value: $300 USD

To help you become a stronger team, deepen your ability to understand each other and work through sensitive conversations, I’ve created a mini course called Conflict to Connection.
 




Conflict To Connection Mini Course

Bonuses included to support you further:

Bonus #2

Value: $100 USD

This 2-part workshop is all about orgasms. How to have more satisfying orgasms and possibly one for the first time. 





Satisfied Workshop

The 3 module course will take you through the basics of re-establishing connection as it ebbs and flows over the timeline of Wanting It More and beyond. 




I recommend waiting to watch this workshop until towards the end of Wanting It More. 





Total: $400 in bonus materials included with the Wanting It More program.

Joining Wanting It More can feel like a warm hug of reassurance.


I do my absolute best to provide loving, yet uncompromising, guidance.

You’ll be given a link to enter our private, online community (hosted on Mighty Networks), where all the program materials, event notifications and written discussions take place. Your husband will be emailed his own link to enter his own men-only community.

Next, you’ll post and read introductions from women around the world, some who may share a common experience as you. Many women report this step as feeling like a flood of relief- it’s a joy to know that you aren’t alone. 


1st Step: Join the Community


I teach you via pre-recorded videos about a specific path of WIM. Your husband will be given his own videos to watch. 

The first week is designed to prove to you that it’s not your fault and you aren’t broken. You’ll most likely end class thinking, “This makes so much sense!! Why didn’t I see this before??”

2nd Step: Watch the Videos

On Mondays, we’ll gather on Zoom for our weekly Group Coaching session designed to help you move through any tricky situations that may have come up. The discussions on this call often further the closeness of the community and soon you’ll know your fellow participants by name.

Your husband will have his coaching calls on Tuesdays. 

3rd Step: Attend a Coaching Call


Here's what to expect:


WIM Weekly Schedule



Mondays: Women's Coaching Calls at 1 pm and 5 pm Pacific
Tuesdays: Men’s Coaching Calls at 1 pm and 5 pm Pacific
Fridays: Weekly Educational Pre-Recorded Videos released

All events are recorded to watch at your convenience.

Click here for a Time Zone Converter to see class times in your part of the world. 


path Two

path four

path three

path six

path five

The messages that we have received from culture about sex and our bodies has lead us to feel broken, ashamed and confused as women. This week is about taking the blame off ourselves and learning the legitimate reasons why we feel what we feel.

Cultivate Compassion

For women, the prerequisite for pleasure is safety and in this week we explore all the unexpected ways to increase comfort, including boundaries, equity and attachment. It’s time to take the pressure off and create the right environment to thrive in.

Establish Safety

Sensual scenes on TV, romance novels and even comments from our friends can create a very clear formula for how sex “should” look like in our minds. This week we develop the skill of looking inward for the answers as we redefine the role of sex in our lives. 

Trust Your Intuition

The word “pleasure” has become synonymous with sensual pleasure and, in turn, can feel shameful and dirty. This week, we reclaim the word, as well as our birthright to experience it, as we explore ways to integrate it into our daily rhythm and grow our pleasure capacity.

Prioritize Your Pleasure

We can feel estranged from our bodies for a variety of reasons including pain, weight gain, health issues and shame... none of which are our fault. Connecting with the body is a chance to develop a whole new relationship based on appreciation, compassion and awe.

Connect With Your Body

Having a structure for the sexual experience helps with practicing the paths of Wanting It More with confidence. This week, learn the perfectly designed roles to enjoy satisfying intimate encounters without pressure
or discomfort.

Explore an Intimate Connection

path one

There are never-ending discoveries in each path and instead of seeing sex as a “success” or “failure”, it will become an opportunity to learn something new every time. 

The frustration of not knowing why you don’t want sex will be replaced with simply getting back on one or more of the paths. You are given an easy self-assessment to use any time you feel like you are slipping back into old patterns.

After learning and practicing these 6 paths, you’ll have a solid foundation from which to build. 

For 8 weeks we systematically move through the 6 paths of the Wanting It More framework.

These 6 paths will be your guide to wanting and enjoying sex as you gradually practice them throughout your life.  

Some women worry that this program won’t work and then they’ll be left feeling even more broken, hopeless and alone.
 

First off, that makes a lot of sense. 

Perhaps you’ve already tried so many things that promised results and now you’re done feeling disappointed.

You may have given up hope long ago and rekindling it feels scary.

Making the financial commitment can feel like you’re promising your husband “results” and add even more pressure. 

There is always a risk that it won’t work like you (or your husband) hope and it would be out of integrity to promise any specific results.

What I can offer is this- if you show up and attend the classes and coaching calls and make sure to participate in your own growth through asking questions and taking action, it will be impossible that you won’t see change for the better in the long run. 

And, of course, it’s okay to decide not to take this step right now. 



 

Women often come to Wanting It More with partners in varying degrees of willingness and enthusiasm. 

What I have observed is that husbands who are open to learning, adjusting and responding to their wife's new discoveries can help her implement the paths quicker, usually resulting in a faster outcome.

If your husband is reluctant to participate in relationship adjustments, change is still 100% possible but it may take longer than expected and your results may initially take the form of personal transformation. 

In my experience, a partner’s pornography use can negatively affect your desire and this topic will be addressed in the program. 










Some women can find a group experience about sex a little… intimidating? Awkward? Uncomfortable? This makes a lot of sense given the world we live in.

To help you with your decision, here are a few thoughts.

First, confidentiality. Everyone signs a confidentiality agreement and our discussions are hosted either on our private online forum or Zoom.

You can decide how much or how little you share with the group but greater participation generally improves your outcome. 

There is always an inherent risk to sharing online regardless of how many safeguards are put in place. 

The reason I take this risk, and ask others to as well, is because of the  profound benefits of group support. Because sex is so shrouded in shame and secrecy, it’s incredibly healing to finally speak openly about this topic in an understanding environment.

The calls are usually profoundly moving and lasting friendships are often formed that extend after the program ends. 

I strive to create an inclusive environment that makes space for all lived experiences including those with or without children, those with or without supportive husbands, those younger and older, all gender and sexual identities, those with religious and non-religious beliefs, and all cultural backgrounds.

For context, our communities are predominantly cis-gendered, heterosexual, able-bodied and white. Increasing diversity in our groups is something I’m aware of and working on.  

There is no 1-1 support in Wanting It More although I guarantee there will always be time for your questions during our group coaching calls.

All coaching call recordings and our online discussion space are permanently deleted after 1 month of the program ending to protect your privacy. You'll continue to have access to the Weekly Class recordings after the program ends. 











What I like to say is that this program is called “wanting” it more, not “having” it more. If you are currently having sex that you do not want, there will most likely be a decrease in the amount you have it, at least in the short term. 

I define “wanting” as feeling fond of the sexual experience, missing it if it doesn’t happen and yearning for the sense of closeness, connection and intimacy it can provide. 

Most women who take this program have “responsive desire” and I offer a structure for the sexual experience that honours this biological difference. It may be different than what you expect being in the mood would feel like. 











While some women don’t experience this, it’s more likely than not that there will be times in this journey that will feel really uncomfortable. 

The fact is- what was happening in your relationship and sex life before wasn’t working, otherwise you wouldn’t be looking for change. And change can be messy.

While my overall goal is to help you have a wonderfully intimate relationship with your husband, getting there may involve difficult conversations, periods of tension and things looking like they are getting worse before they get better.

In addition to this reality-check, I can also reassure you that I have witnessed hundreds of women come through the messy middle and find a deeper connection with their partners on the other end.












How willing your husband is can affect your timeline.

A group experience can feel vulnerable at first.

Growth isn't always linear.

Wanting it more doesn't always mean having it more.

A few things to consider...

Join the waitlist!

I'd love to have you join us if it feels like a good fit.

The next round of Wanting It More starts June 2024.

More About Janna

It can feel scary to put your trust in learning about sex from someone you don’t know very well.

If this is our first time meeting, I suggest checking out a few of my podcast episodes or YouTube videos to get a feel for my energy.


I live on Vancouver Island, Canada and have two teen daughters.

I’m an enneagram 1, INFJ, introvert who presents as an extrovert, and HSP (if you’re into personality types and traits). 

I turn 40 this year.

In terms of beliefs and values, I believe that life is more than the physical and I find a lot of fulfilment in my spiritual life.

Wanting It More is a non-religious program but it may be nice to know that I’m comfortable if you use terms such as “God”, “Universe”,“Mother Earth”, “Source”, “Divine” or nothing at all.









I can meet you where you’re at with no judgement and without any need for you to have the same beliefs as me.

I’m interested in topics related to social justice and do my best to
contribute in my local community. I acknowledge the existence of
patriarchy, white supremacy, and ableism.

Although I have chosen to support heterosexual women,
I believe that love is love.

And just to keep it real, my bedroom always has my clothes on the floor,
I secretly love watching Vanlife videos on YouTube and I enjoy
7-Eleven rootbeer slurpies.







Principals of Redefined Sex 

The goal is pleasure and connection rather than intercourse and orgasm.

Feeling 100% comfortable is more important than saying “yes” to please.

Each person is the knower of their own body.

There is space to be fully yourself- messy emotions and all! 

Talking is encouraged (if it feels right).

Pleasure is more important than performance.

It’s a mutual experience rather than a gift, favor or duty.

It’s a fun, enjoyable activity without the weight of being used for stress relief or proving love. 

Scheduling opportunities to explore takes away the stress of initiation.

Clear boundaries provide deeper intimacy.

This isn’t about wanting the sex you’re currently having; it’s about changing the whole experience.

One of the purposes of Wanting It More is to help you design a sex life that you can look forward to.

If you’ve ever wondered why you don’t feel connection and intimacy from the sexual experience, it’s most likely because the sex you’re having isn’t working, not because you aren’t working!

In week 6 of Wanting It More, you’ll spend time considering the type of sex you want to have moving forward and to give you a taste of what that could look like.

Here are 10 principals that you may also choose to adopt:


"Having a planned time of connection each week has been so life-giving to our relationship. We are getting along better in general and feel more connected during the rest of the week"

L.Y.

Melissa and her husband had a strong relationship but avoided sex because it was painful. She “joined WIM on a whim”, and was grateful to find a community of women who helped her learn that she was not alone or broken. 

She has more confidence and is more self assured, not just in sex but in many areas of her life. She learned intimacy doesn’t have to equal pain and is eternally grateful to have found WIM.

"My life has changed drastically."

click video to watch Melissa's story

"We have a fulfilling sex life!"

Mike’s wife took Wanting it More and before the program, he felt frustrated that he was constantly pursuing her and was never being pursued. He felt unloved, unwanted and disrespected even when they did have sex, because it felt like an obligation on her part.

As his wife continued with Wanting it More, their communication improved dramatically and he was able to understand what she was going through and needed. Now he thinks their sex life is awesome - more frequent, fulfilling and fun.

click video to watch mike's story



"We have this intimacy and connection we haven’t had for years."

Sarah believed her role was to give her husband everything he wanted. Deep down, she knew forcing herself to feel desire was a constant struggle that left her feeling lost and broken.

WIM changed everything. Sarah discovered her own needs and wants were just as important as her husband's. With newfound freedom to explore pleasure and speak her truth, she and her husband have rediscovered the joy of intimacy, and their relationship is stronger and more fulfilling than ever.

click video to watch Sarah's story

"We're closer than we've ever been!"

Before Callum's wife took the program, their relationship felt stale and sex was a one-sided routine. He was disappointed with his wife’s lack of desire and wanted his wife to actually enjoy the sexual experience.

After signing up for the program, Callum was pleasantly surprised when he began to see positive growth. Communication improved greatly, his wife's confidence soared and he started to see himself - and the world - in a brand new way. This new learning changed him and his marriage forever.

click video to watch callum's story

"I have so much hope!"

For thirty years, Laura and her husband were stuck in a cycle: intimacy, avoidance, resentment, then eventually intimacy again. She was about to book an appointment with an intimacy therapist when she chose to join Wanting It More instead.

Just eight weeks later, she feels an immense sense of hope for the future of her marriage. Her and her husband now have tools to experience connection in a much deeper way!

click video to watch laura's story

The warmth, support and connection in our online community is amazing.

Participants find that this is a great place to feel safe to have those types of conversations not common anywhere else. You can look forward to feeling normal, being understood and receiving solid advice from a supportive group of women.

We also have a lot of fun :) 

"The ladies in the online community are so supportive. There is no judgement. I truly believe the community was a huge part of healing for me. Just knowing you are not alone and being able to freely talk about your struggles and ask questions is a huge deal. Plus, we are hilarious!"

jill

WIM has shown me that there is no one right definition of sex. While working through the paths, I have taken ownership of my life in so many ways."

I have seen MASSIVE CHANGES!! I feel safe and want to be vulnerable in our sex life. I feel more connected and in love with my husband. 

I have learned to have compassion for myself as I now know that I AM NOT BROKEN.

"This program without a doubt has empowered our marriage to become the best it can be."

C.j.

m.s.

T.L.

s.s

yes i'm in!

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Everything that's included:

6 videos for women and 6 videos for husbands for each WIM Path

6 workbooks for each WIM path 

16 live group coaching calls for women and 16 for husbands

Private online community forums (one for women, one for men)

BONUS: Conflict to Connection mini course 

BONUS: Satisfied workshop


join WAITLIST!

Wanting It More starts June 2024

Frequently Asked

Questions

If your husband is reluctant to participate in relationship adjustments, change is still 100% possible but it may take longer than expected and your results may initially take the form of personal transformation. I provide 6 video lessons and 16 coaching calls for your husband if he wants to be involved.

Does my husband need to be involved?

How long do I have access to the material?

Will I feel uncomfortable?

Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

Will this help if I've experienced trauma?

Do you have a refund policy?

What is the live event schedule?

You'll have access to the weekly class recordings for as long as the program exists (which I plan on being for a very, very long time.) You'll have access to the women's coaching call recordings and the men's coaching call recordings for one month after the programs ends, after which they are deleted for privacy reasons. 


Does my husband need to be involved?

How long do I have access to the material?

Will I feel uncomfortable?

Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

Will this help if I've experienced trauma?

Do you have a refund policy?

What is the live event schedule?

Many women are concerned that I'll be asking them to do things that they feel uncomfortable with. Have no fear! This program is not about "spicing things up", it's about learning how to listen to your intuition to feel even more comfortable after the program.

Does my husband need to be involved?

How long do I have access to the material?

Will I feel uncomfortable?

Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

Will this help if I've experienced trauma?

Do you have a refund policy?

What is the live event schedule?

Although I don't specifically speak about religious beliefs in the program (to make sure everyone feels safe and included), it is my personal belief that sex is Divinely created and designed specifically for the purposes of unity, joy and bonding in a marriage. I ALWAYS encourage everyone to trust what feels good first and follow my recommendations second.

Does my husband need to be involved?

How long do I have access to the material?

Will I feel uncomfortable?

Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

Will this help if I've experienced trauma?

Do you have a refund policy?

What is the live event schedule?

While I am not a physician or physiotherapist (which I will always encourage you to go see), this program has helped many women who experienced physical pain with intercourse. Now they experience pleasure and relaxation in the sexual experience, even though it might not always involve penetration.

Does my husband need to be involved?

How long do I have access to the material?

Will I feel uncomfortable?

Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

Will this help if I've experienced trauma?

Do you have a refund policy?

What is the live event schedule?

This program creates a structure of safety and support in the sexual experience so I find that most women who have experienced trauma greatly benefit from it. However, it is not within the scope of this group program to heal trauma.

Does my husband need to be involved?

How long do I have access to the material?

Will I feel uncomfortable?

Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

Will this help if I've experienced trauma?

Do you have a refund policy?

What is the live event schedule?

Does my husband need to be involved?

How long do I have access to the material?

Will I feel uncomfortable?

Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

Will this help if I've experienced trauma?

Do you have a refund policy?

What is the live event schedule?

If after 2 weeks of the program, you don’t feel like it’s a good fit, I will give you a 100% refund, minus processing fees ($50). Please take time to read this whole page and book a call before joining if you aren’t sure, as having people leave the program can be disruptive to the group.

Does my husband need to be involved?

How long do I have access to the material?

Will I feel uncomfortable?

Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

Will this help if I've experienced trauma?

Do you have a refund policy?

What is the weekly event schedule?

Mondays: Women's Coaching Calls at 1 pm and 5 pm Pacific
Tuesdays: Men’s Coaching Calls at 1 pm and 5 pm Pacific
Fridays: Weekly Educational Pre-Recorded Videos released
All events are recorded to watch at your convenience.