Do you want to want
sex with your husband... but just don't?

Is this you?

Even though you really love your husband, intimacy just feels like a chore.

Furthermore...

You feel resentful that your husband wants it and yet guilty for not wanting to do it.

There is a lot of tension between you after years of frustration with this issue.

You wonder if you’re broken because you don’t get sexual feelings.

And, deep down, you're worried about the damage this lack of intimacy is doing to your marriage. You're completely uninterested in a sexless marriage, forcing it to happen or living like roommates.

It may feel hopeless right now but, I promise...

join the waitlist!

There is so much hope!

    “I actually want sex now!"

    Kendall is 32 and has been married for 9 years. Before Wanting it More, she felt frustrated, discouraged, broken and resigned to the fact that she would have a lifetime of arguments about sex in her marriage.

    In 2 short months, her marriage has completely changed and now their sex life now embraces unity, connection and wholeness.

    They have regular sexual encounters that she is excited for and wants and she has discovered that she isn’t “broken” after all. 

    Listen to kendall's story

    So why don't you want it?

    You've probably wondered, "What's wrong with me?"

    In fact, many women ask for help and the response they get is, "Sex is good for your marriage, so just force yourself to do it."

    (yikes)

    The truth is… sex is meant to be good for YOU, but unless it’s designed properly, you’ll continue to dread it.

    The thing is, women know that sex is an important part of their relationship.

    Sex is meant to be a nourishing experience for you. 

    Pleasure is a birthright.

    No more mental gymnastics!

    A woman's body works just fine, it’s the cultural messages, lack of education and relationship dynamics that are the issue. 

    It’s time to shake the worry and frustration and instead feel relief and freedom.

    There are 2 things that will increase your sex drive 100% of the time:


    SAFETY & EMPOWERMENT

    How would it feel to?

    Have fun with without pressure to advance things?

    Have fond memories of a last sexual experience?

    Know dislikes and likes and feel in control of desire?

    Be connected and close?

    I'm Janna Denton-Howes,

    When it comes to not “wanting it”, I understand it all. 

    For the first 14 years of my marriage, I would have way rather cleaned the toilet than hop into bed with my husband. Sure, once my engine was revved up a bit, it was okay(ish), but getting there took a serious effort. 

    We fought about sex all the time and I was done feeling used, pressured and like I was the one with the problem.

    After years of unsuccessfully trying to find the solution to this frustrating and lonely challenge, I eventually developed my own methodology to solve this issue once and for all.

    What I discovered not only completely fixed the desire mismatch in my marriage but has helped over 1000 women do the same.

    Desire Coach and Creator of Wanting it More.

    Desire Coach
    and Creator of Wanting it More.

    When it comes to not
    “wanting it”, I understand
    it all. 

    For the first 14 years of my
    marriage, I would have way
    rather cleaned the toilet than hop into bed with my husband. Sure, once my engine was revved up a bit, it was okay(ish), but getting there took a serious effort. 

    We fought about intimacy all the time and I was done feeling used, pressured and like I was the one with the problem.

    After years of unsuccessfully trying to find the solution to this frustrating and lonely challenge, I eventually developed my own methodology to solve this issue once and for all.

    What I discovered not only completely fixed the desire mismatch in my marriage but has helped over 1000 women do the same.

    Wanting it More was created out of hundreds of hours working with women, married to men, who felt like sex was a chore.

    I’ve spent hundreds of hours as a Desire Coach helping married women turn the frustration of not wanting it into the satisfaction of knowing exactly how to get in the mood.

    What I’ve realized it this: the advice that most other relationship and sex experts are giving is all wrong (and sometimes even harmful).

    Forcing yourself to “just do it” for the sake of your marriage or placing so much emphasis on "mind blowing" orgasms leaves most women feeling icky and pressured. 

    There’s a better way...

    Let me introduce...

    For 8 weeks, I will guide your to…

    Join the waitlist!

    Find pleasure in your everyday life.

    Trust what feels good (and what doesn’t).

    Connect with your body.

    Comfortably talk about sex.

    Create important boundaries.

    Explore an intimate connection.

      "Even after just one week of the program, I have more positive feelings about sex and our time together. If you are considering the program, give it a chance. You have nothing to lose!"

      Danielle

      “My pleasure matters!"

      Dr. Laura Froyen is a family and marriage therapist, who hit some roadblocks in her own marriage. She struggled to find lasting solutions when seeking help from from other doctors and therapists, and turned to Wanting it More for help. 

      Not only did Laura find confidence in Janna's professionalism and expertise, but her marriage radically changed. Communication improved, connection increased, and she finally felt free to express her desires like never before!

      Listen to Laura's story

      Here's what's included in

      Weekly Videos

      Worksheets

      Private Facebook Group

      Group Coaching Calls

      Short videos to guide participants each week.

      Simple worksheets to support the action steps.

      A community of amazing women.

      Live weekly calls for profound support.

      Wanting it More!

      Plus, get lifetime access to the program materials!

      Don't worry about rushing through the program or forgetting everything.

      Get LIFETIME ACCESS to the video program plus all updates. 

      Unlimited opportunities to continue this journey.

      Don't worry about rushing through the program or forgetting everything.

      Get LIFETIME ACCESS to the video program plus all updates. 

      Unlimited opportunities to continue
      this journey.

      Bonus #1

      A complete video course to help husbands understand what their wife's needs are in and out of the bedroom. Created and delivered by John and Janna.

      Value: $997

      Husband Program

      Bonus #2

      Learn the most effective communication tool that my clients LOVE so that you can transform conflict into connection every time.

      Value: $297

      Conflict To Connection

      Your Wanting it More Bonuses:

      Bonus #3

      Shockingly simple, clear and practical ways to talk a husband so that he can hear and respond without shutting down, getting defensive or exploding.

      Value: $297

      Secrets of the Male Brain 

      Here is everything that is included...

      8 week online course. 8 live group coaching calls. Private Facebook group. Tools to increase libido in a way that is empowering and feels natural. 

      Value: $1497

      Wanting It More

      Everything husbands needs to know to understand and support their wives while becoming a  sophisticated responder in the bedroom.

      Value: $997

      Husband Program

      The most important tool to transform potential conflict into connection every time.

      Value: $297

      Conflict To Connection

      Understand how a husband’s brain works to be able to talk to him in a way that he can listen and listen so he can talk.

      Value: $297

      Secrets of the Male Brain

      TOTAL PROGRAM VALUE OF $3088

      Join the waitlist!

        week Two

        week four

        week three

        week six

        week five

        Want to know all the details?

        Here is a quick tour of each week:

        The messages that we have received from culture about sex and our bodies has lead us to feel broken, ashamed and confused as women. This week is about taking the blame off ourselves and learning the legitimate reasons why we feel what we feel.

        Cultivate Compassion

        For women, the prerequisite for pleasure is safety and in this week we explore all the unexpected ways to increase comfort, including boundaries, equity and attachment. It’s time to take the pressure off and create the right environment to thrive in.

        Establish Safety

        Sensual scenes on TV, romance novels and even comments from our friends can create a very clear formula for how sex “should” look like in our minds. This week we develop the skill of looking inward for the answers as we redefine the role of sex in our lives. 

        Trust Intuition

        The word “pleasure” has become synonymous with sensual pleasure and, in turn, can feel shameful and dirty. This week, we reclaim the word, as well as our birthright to experience it, as we explore ways to integrate it into our daily rhythm and grow our pleasure capacity.

        Prioritize Pleasure

        We can feel estranged from our bodies for a variety of reasons including pain, weight gain, health issues and shame... none of which are our fault. Connecting with the body is a chance to develop a whole new relationship based on appreciation, compassion and awe.

        Connect with the Body

        Having a structure for the sexual experience helps with practicing the paths of Wanting it More with confidence. This week, learn the perfectly designed roles to enjoy satisfying intimate encounters without pressure or discomfort.

        Explore an Intimate Connection

        week one

        “I am not alone!"

        When Becky found her desire waning in her marriage, she was left feeling broken and alone. She was stuck in feelings of guilt, shame and fear that things would never change.

        Through Wanting it More, Becky discovered that not only was she not alone, but there were hundreds of other women with stories like hers. She felt normal and validated in her experiences. Now, she feels empowered to let go of the guilt and experience true connection and pleasure!

        Listen to Becky's story

        The warmth, support and connection in our Facebook Community is amazing.

        Participants find that this is a great place to feel safe to have those types of conversations not common anywhere else. Come here to feel normal, understood and receive solid advice from real women.

        We also have a lot of fun :) 

        "The ladies in the Facebook Group are so supportive. There is no judgement. I truly believe the Facebook Group was a huge part of healing for me. Just knowing you are not alone and being able to freely talk about your struggles and ask questions is a huge deal. Plus, we are hilarious!"

        jill

        This program has worked for hundreds of women.

        The most common question I get is..

        "Will this work for ME?"

        Feeling safe and in control in order to experience pleasure, relaxation and connection. 

        Having zero guilt or expectations from their husbands.

        Developing a compassionate and appreciative relationship with their bodies.  

        Not feeling pressure to “get in the mood” but rather seeing sex as a gentle, self-care practice.

        Gaining confidence to learn how to communicate about sex.

        The methodology I teach in Wanting It More works for all women because ALL women benefit from:

        “I have so much hope!"

        For thirty years, Laura and her husband were stuck in a cycle: intimacy, avoidance, resentment, then eventually intimacy again. She was about to book an appointment with an intimacy therapist when she chose to join Wanting it More instead.

        Just eight weeks later, she feels an immense sense of hope for the future of her marriage. Her and her husband now have tools to experience connection in a much deeper way!

        Listen to Laura's story

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          Wanting it More works for all different life circumstances:

          Having young kids and perhaps still breast-feeding and/or co-sleeping.

          Experiencing painful sex or no orgasms.

          Struggling with wacky hormones, medication side effects or chronic illness.

          Wanting a safe, comfortable experience that works with core values.

          Feeling disconnected and experiencing communication challenges.

          Enjoying “okay” sex but wanting it to be better.

          Worried about the hubby?

          Lots of women think, “Yes, I need this program!” but then their second thought is, “How do I talk to my husband about it?”

          It may feel like purchasing this course will increase the expectation to want it more or that hubby's feelings will be hurt.

          Ultimately, there are 3 choices:

          You might be surprised by how receptive he is to investing in your sex life. Men often want to try and solve the problem on their own- but you know this approach hasn't worked. Use this guide to help you talk to your husband about this program.

          Talk to hubby

          Don't talk to hubby... yet.

          Don't change

          Many women in the program decide that they prefer to quietly go through the course on their own. Eventually you will want to bring your husband in to get the most out of the experience, but it's not necessary up front.

          The third and final option is to do nothing. Of course the choice is yours but if you’re committed to rekindling intimacy in your marriage, now is the time. I don't believe that you are reading this by accident. I encourage you to be the spark of change in your relationship!

          option #1

          option #2

          option #3

          “We have a more frequent & fulfilling sex life!"

          Mike’s wife took Wanting it More and before the program, he felt frustrated that he was constantly pursuing her and was never being pursued. He felt unloved, unwanted and disrespected even when they did have sex, because it felt like an obligation on her part.

          As his wife continued with Wanting it More, their communication improved dramatically and he was able to understand what she was going through and needed. Now he thinks their sex life is awesome - more frequent, fulfilling and fun.

          Listen to Mike's story

          "We're closer than we've ever been!"

          Before Callum's wife took the program, their relationship felt stale and sex was a one-sided routine. He was disappointed with his wife’s lack of desire and wanted his wife to actually enjoy the sexual experience.

          After reluctantly agreeing to sign up for the program, Callum was pleasantly surprised when he began to see positive growth. Communication improved greatly, his wife's confidence soared and he started to see himself - and the world - in a brand new way.

          This new learning changed him and his marriage forever.

          Listen to callum's story

          “THIS PROGRAM WORKS! When you learn how to effectively keep your wife feeling safe and less pressured, your sex life will reap the benefits!”

          “I feel more connected to my wife than I’ve felt for a very long time… This has been the single best investment we’ve made in the health of our relationship.”

          “We are closer in our whole relationship, and our sexual relationship is better than it has ever been!”

          “We have gone from your typical story of "I want it; she doesn't" to both of us enjoying sex regularly!”

          bill

          nate

          jason

          Simon

          What if it was possible to feel 100% relaxed and happy with your sex life by this time next year?

          Now's the time!

          Join the waitlist!

            "Because of this program, my husband and I have grown so much closer, and i'm enjoying and looking forward to sex!"

            "It sounds too good to be true but it's not!! The ideas in the program are truly radical. I have learned so much, and cried many happy tears."

            "Along with helping our intimacy, it has helped both me and my husband grow as people and has reunited us to save our marriage."

            "This course goes right to the heart of our issues, and is not a temporary fix that will one day need to be replaces by yet another course or idea. This is the real deal, creating a lifetime of authentic intimacy."

            "If it feels like drowning with no way out, this program is the life raft we've all been searching for!"

            "This program has given me the reassurance that my marriage is going to make it. Without a doubt, it has empowered our marriage to become the best it can be."

            Amy

            Alice

            Catie

            Judy

            Nancy

            Brandi

            Imagine, 8 weeks from now...

            Laughing in the bedroom and enjoying a pressure-free moment of intimacy.

            Confident to talk about sex without a hint of shame or embarrassment.

            Feeling acceptance, joy and excitement with your sex life.

            Free of resentment and empowered to communicate needs and desires, in and out of the bedroom.

            Connected to an amazing, supportive, encouraging and wise group of women!

            "This program is the best investment in our relationship that we've ever made."

            -MK, Program Participant

            Frequently Asked

            Questions

            Many women are concerned that I'll be asking them to do things that they feel uncomfortable with. Have no fear! This program is not about "spicing things up", it's about learning how to listen to deep intuition to feel even more comfortable after the program.

            Does my husband need to be involved?

            How long do I have access to the material?

            Will I feel uncomfortable?

            Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

            Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

            Will this help if i've experienced trauma?

            Do you have a refund policy?

            Although I don't specifically speak about religious beliefs in the program (to make sure everyone feels safe and included), it is my personal belief that sex is Divinely created and designed specifically for the purposes of unity, joy and bonding in a marriage. I ALWAYS encourage everyone to trust what feels good first and follow my recommendations second.

            Does my husband need to be involved?

            How long do I have access to the material?

            Will I feel uncomfortable?

            Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

            Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

            Will this help if i've experienced trauma?

            Do you have a refund policy?

            While I am not a physician or physiotherapist (which I will always encourage you to go see), this program has helped many women who experienced physical pain with intercourse. Now they experience pleasure and relaxation in the sexual experience, even though it might not always involve penetration.

            Does my husband need to be involved?

            How long do I have access to the material?

            Will I feel uncomfortable?

            Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

            Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

            Will this help if i've experienced trauma?

            Do you have a refund policy?

            This program creates a structure of safety and support in the sexual experience so I find that most women who have experienced trauma greatly benefit from it. However, it is not within the scope of this group program to heal trauma.

            Does my husband need to be involved?

            How long do I have access to the material?

            Will I feel uncomfortable?

            Will this be compatible with my faith beliefs?

            Will this help if I experience painful intercourse?

            Will this help if i've experienced trauma?

            Do you have a refund policy?

            Join the waitlist!

            ANY QUESTIONS OR CONCERNS?