❤️🩹 Does sex feel like an obligation that you secretly never want to have again?
❤️🩹 Do you dread going to bed and stay up late to avoid the weight of expectation?
❤️🩹 Do you like cuddling but always feel pressure to advance things?
❤️🩹 Do you feel guilty when you say no to your husband?
Your mind and body are having an appropriate response to the pressures, expectations, and problematic ideas about intimacy that have been placed on you.
It's not your fault. It's not your husband's fault.
It's culture's fault.
Have access to a community of women who know exactly what you are going through. Never feel alone again!
Connection & Encouragement
Gently guiding you to uncover the messages, expectations and pressures you are surrounded by, bringing you freedom and choice.
Eye-opening Exercises
Simple yet profound questions, encouraging you to reflect on your true needs so that you can experience more ease and joy.
Insightful Reflection Qs
Expert advice helping you feel more clear, confident, and connected to yourself.
Easy-to-follow Video Lessons
Created out of years of research with thousands of women, providing you with a fresh and proven framework.
4 Powerful Modules
Freedom to go at your own pace without having to involve your husband or have awkward conversations!
A self-guided, online program designed to gently validate, educate, and support you towards a safer, more enjoyable sex life.
Do you struggle to trust your intuition and often second-guess yourself?
Does it feel impossible to imagine a sex life that you’d actually like?
Do you find talking about sex with your husband difficult?
These challenges stem from a lack of confidence in your own voice and desires.
By empowering yourself, you can explore new possibilities and find the courage to envision what truly feels right for you.
Stage Four: Empowering Yourself for New Possibilities
Does it feel like your mind and body don’t respond properly?
Do you find yourself not knowing what you like in the bedroom?
Do you find it hard to transition into an intimate experience?
This happens because you have been given a very narrow definition of what constitutes enjoyment.
When you expand your understanding of pleasure, you’ll be able to redefine how it can bring nourishment and delight to your life.
Stage Three: Understanding the True Meaning of Pleasure
Do you quickly dress before your husband comes into the room?
Does it feel icky when he calls you “sexy” or makes other comments?
Do you feel tense when he gives you an unwanted touch?
These feelings signal that your sense of safety is being affected, even if it’s unintentional (I know your husband is a good guy!).
Observing your sense of safety leads to reclaiming your right to feel comfortable, 100% of the time, which will bring freedom and relief.
Stage Two: Observing your Sense of Safety
Do you feel like you owe sex to your husband?
Do you ever watch a sex scene and feel inadequate?
Does it feel like your body and pleasure are dirty and wrong?
These feelings often come from cultural messages that have been ingrained over time.
Once your eyes are opened, these messages lose their power and you’ll find self-compassion and confidence to trust yourself.
Stage One: Reflecting on Harmful Cultural Messages
In order to want and enjoy sex, this is where you need to start...
Feel liberated from guilt and self-judgement.
Finally understand why you don’t want to have sex.
Find the courage to advocate for yourself.
Have clarity about your true needs.
Feel confident to trust yourself.
Heal from shame and negative experiences.
Find a healthier perspective on sex.
Experience more self-compassion.
Feel validated and not alone.
12 Video Lessons
Reflection Questions
Powerful Exercises
Mentor and Community Support
Lifetime Access to Course Material
$100 Coupon for Doing It Together
You want to want sex but just don’t.
You want a step that you can do on your own.
You want to solve this for good and get to the root of the issue.
You're tired of advice to "just do it" and "buy some lingerie!"
It can feel scary to put your trust in learning about sex from someone you don’t know very well.
If this is our first time meeting, I suggest checking out a few of my podcast episodes or YouTube videos to get a feel for my energy.
I am a trained Marriage Coach and have spent the last 7 years helping women find safety, pleasure and empowerment in their sex lives. I also work with men, helping them lower pressure on their wives so that sex can become a mutual experience.
I'm inspired by my own personal experiences and look towards a future in which all women are 100% safe in their marriages.
I live on Vancouver Island in Canada.
This course lays the groundwork for you to discover what you need and want from the sexual experience. Many women go on to take my couple's course, Doing It Together, with their husbands to make changes to their sex life as a team.
No refunds are offered due to the digital nature of this course.
The full course is available immediately after purchase. It is self-paced so you can work through the material however works best for you. The discussion forum is always open to add your thoughts and read the posts from other women on their own learnings.
This is a different program than “Wanting It More” which has morphed into my couple’s program, Doing It Together. To avoid confusion, this program is called Wanting It More Foundations.
YES! Once you register, you’ll be given access to a moderated, private community where you can share your reflections and offer support to each other.
No. This course was created as a space for you to reflect, observe, and learn without having to have any conversations with him. If you want to continue along the journey with him, Doing It Together is my course for couples.