When it comes to not “wanting it”, I understand it all.

For the first 14 years of my marriage, I would have way rather cleaned the toilet than hop into bed with my husband! Sure, once my engine was revved up a bit, it was okay(ish), but getting there took a serious effort.

We fought about sex all the time and I was DONE feeling used, pressured and like I was the one with the problem.

After years of unsuccessfully trying to find the solution to this frustrating (and lonely) challenge, I eventually trained to be a Marriage Coach and buckled down to develop my own methodology to solve this issue.

And what I discovered not only completely fixed the desire mismatch in my marriage but now has helped hundreds of other women and couples do the same.

If I could do it, you can do it too!

The thing is, you know that sex is an important part of your relationship...

So why don't you want it?

You've probably wondered, "What's wrong with me?"

In fact, many women ask for help and the response they get is, "Sex is good for your marriage, so just force yourself to do it."


The thing is sex is good for YOU, but this standard advice is completely unhelpful.

If you've like to know the advice that actually works (I know this because it's worked for me AND hundreds of other married women)...

Take the quiz, "The Four Desire Fixes" and discover which Desire Fix is PREFECT for you...

Now for some fun stuff.

My coolest feature is my sidekick and husband extraordinaire, John the Civil Engineer. We have two daughters, 10 and 11 who still like hanging out with us 🙂 

We live on Vancouver Island in Canada amongst forests, rivers, lakes and the big beautiful Pacific Ocean. 

My Office is a converted garden shed which is a perfect little sanctuary from my chaotic busy household!

I'm a highly sensitive person which means I'm overwhelmed 80% of the time but the creativity, passion and insight that comes from this trait makes it all worth it.

Official Bio

Janna Denton-Howes is a professionally trained Marriage Coach who is known for her popular course, The Wanting It More Program. Affectionately called, "Chief Libido Officer" and "Husband Whisperer" by her participants and coaching clients, Janna not only helps married women take sex off their to-do lists.

One of her greatest accomplishments in life has been to beat the odds of teenage marriage and still be married to her prom date! When she isn't working from her garden shed office, you can find her having a beach fire with her husband, John, and their two daughters or curled up with a book about the male brain.

Check out her stories, tips and inspiration at jannadentonhowes.com and learn how connection is just around the corner.