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IN THIS EPISODE: Do you have a hard time saying no to your husband’s sexual advances for fear of hurting his feelings? So many women I teach say they feel internal pressure and duty to give in and get it over with when it comes to sex with their husband. No wonder so many women […]

56. HOW SAYING “NO” CAN INCREASE PHYSICAL TOUCH IN SEX AND MARRIAGE- WITH JO

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IN THIS EPISODE: Struggling to find the importance of sex in marriage after 60? I’m talking to Diane, a teacher and musician in her sixties with three grown children. Despite being an educator, Diane admits to knowing nothing about sexual relationships in her youth and “assuming the guys knew what they were doing.”  In this […]

54. SEX AFTER 60: HOW TO TALK ABOUT SEX AFTER YEARS OF SILENCE- WITH DIANE

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IN THIS EPISODE: Today we’re talking about foreplay and why I don’t think more foreplay, typically prescribed to women with low libido, is the answer to enjoying sex more.  I believe it does more harm to women than good. Curious to know why? Listen in as I discuss three reasons why the goal to increase […]

53. WHY FOREPLAY DOESN’T LEAD TO BETTER SEX (AND WHAT WORKS INSTEAD)

5 TIPS FOR MEN TO HELP THEIR WIFE ENJOY A BETTER SEX LIFE

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IN THIS EPISODE: This episode is for the men listening out there! I often get emails from husbands asking me for advice on what they can do to help their wife enjoy sex more. Maybe they’ve listened to my podcast or read my website, so these men already understand it’s not about labelling her with […]

52. WIFE NOT ENJOYING SEX? 5 TIPS FOR MEN TO HELP THEIR WIFE ENJOY A BETTER SEX LIFE

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IN THIS EPISODE: Janna shares her experience of how following advice to “spice things up” in the bedroom to increase her desire left her feeling empty, unsatisfied and unaligned with herself. RESOURCES MENTIONED: My Program: Wanting It More LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: ENJOY THE SHOW? 

51. IT’S NOT ABOUT SPICING IT UP

It’s Not About Spicing It Up

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IN THIS EPISODE: Janna talks to Melissa, her Community Coordinator, about the fascinating things they’re learning as they support husbands for the first time in the Wanting It More program. Topics include: RESOURCES MENTIONED: My Program: Wanting It More LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: ENJOY THE SHOW? 

50. WHAT MEN STRUGGLE TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT HER NOT WANTING IT

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IN THIS EPISODE: Janna shares specific details from a real-life example of an intimate encounter with her husband to demonstrate how she follows the paths of Wanting It More in her marriage. RESOURCES MENTIONED: My Program: Wanting It More LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: ENJOY THE SHOW? 

49. AN EXAMPLE OF REAL MARRIED SEX

49. An Example of Real Married Sex
Letting Go of Goals in Sex - with Laura Froyen, PhD

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IN THIS EPISODE: Parenting expert Dr. Laura Froyen returns to the podcast to discuss the similarities between the pressures of parenthood goals and the pressures of bedroom goals. Other topics of conversation include: RESOURCES MENTIONED: My Program: Wanting It More Laura’s Podcast: The Balanced Parent LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: ENJOY THE SHOW? 

48. LETTING GO OF GOALS IN THE BEDROOM – WITH LAURA FROYEN, PHD

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IN THIS EPISODE: 52-year-old Charles (who has listened to every Wanting It More podcast episode!) talks to Janna about the religious and cultural messages about sex he received growing up, the confusion they created in his life, and his long healing journey in learning a healthier way forward in his marriage. RESOURCES MENTIONED: My Program: […]

47. CHALLENGING UNHEALTHY BEDROOM MESSAGES – WITH CHARLES

Challenging unhealthy bedroom messages - with Charles
Healing from Betrayal Trauma- with Michelle Mays

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IN THIS EPISODE: Janna speaks with Michelle Mays – author, innovator and counselor with over 20 years of experience treating sexual betrayal and trauma. RESOURCES MENTIONED: My Program: Wanting It More Michelle Mays: https://michellemays.com/ LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: ENJOY THE SHOW? 

46. HEALING FROM BETRAYAL TRAUMA – WITH MICHELLE MAYS, LPC, CSAT-S