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IN THIS EPISODE: Colin grew up with two therapist parents, one of whom was a sex therapist. He learned a lot about emotions, sex, safety, consent, and talking openly from them. These things were really important to him and shaped his core values as he became a man. His wife also thought he was very […]

94. SEX THERAPIST’S SON REVEALS UNTOLD TRUTHS ON FEMALE DESIRE – WITH COLIN

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IN THIS EPISODE: Kelly loved her husband of 20 years, but she noticed a change in her feelings toward intimacy over time, and she couldn’t understand why. After some of their friends surprised them with divorce news, her husband worried about their own relationship, even though Kelly felt secure.  He thought the solution was for […]

93. WHY PHYSICAL ATTRACTION DOESN’T SOLVE WOMEN’S LOW DESIRE – WITH KELLY

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IN THIS EPISODE: Nancy unfolds her 71-year journey, delving into three significant relationships and the tumultuous experiences within each. Enduring emotional abandonment, financial instability, sexual abuse, and a constant sense of being invisible and invalidated, she shares the poignant struggle of feeling like a solitary voice crying out, yet unheard. However, amidst this turmoil, her […]

92. FINDING THE RIGHT WORDS AFTER 71 YEARS – WITH NANCY

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IN THIS EPISODE: Why are women conditioned to endure pain? Natalie reveals the multitude of reasons she persisted through painful sexual experiences with her husband for 27 years of their marriage. It wasn’t until she discovered Wanting It More that she realized the detrimental extent of what she was subjecting her body and mind to […]

91. WHY DO WOMEN ENDURE PAINFUL SEX? – WITH NATALIE

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IN THIS EPISODE: David’s wife spent years expressing her dissatisfaction with their sex life, repeatedly sharing her feelings, but David remained skeptical. Despite her efforts, he couldn’t accept her perspective. Influenced by adult entertainment and misinformation, he believed he was doing everything right, yet she didn’t respond as expected, leading him to conclude there was […]

90. WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT FOR MEN TO BELIEVE WOMEN? – WITH DAVID

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IN THIS EPISODE: Michele bravely opens up about her tumultuous journey through relationships as a woman in her late 50s. She recounts the harrowing experiences of enduring compulsive lying, cheating, porn and sex addiction, abuse, and a pervasive lack of consent. Amidst the darkness, she discovered a beacon of hope in Janna, whose guidance led […]

89. OVERCOMING BETRAYAL TRAUMA, ADDICTION, & LACK OF SAFETY IN THE BEDROOM – WITH MICHELE

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IN THIS EPISODE: We delve into Raina’s journey of rediscovering her desire for sex within her marriage. Despite a healthy upbringing with decent sexual education, positive body image, and safe and secure sexual experiences, Raina found herself losing interest in intimacy with her husband after getting married. After starting a personal journey which she affectionately […]

88. THE EFFECTS OF CHURCH STIGMA & HYSTERECTOMY ON LOW DESIRE – WITH RAINA

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IN THIS EPISODE: When Lisa took the Wanting It More program a couple of years ago, she never imagined the valuable lessons she learned to improve her low libido would also come in handy when confronting a medical issue. Lisa talks in detail about her struggles with body image anxiety and gynecological exams that accompanied […]

87. LISA’S JOURNEY THROUGH LOW LIBIDO AND LICHEN SCLEROSUS

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IN THIS EPISODE: Kyle’s career in law enforcement defined him as a safe person, dedicating his life to keeping his community and those who live in it safe from harm. Imagine his surprise when he learned the root cause behind his dwindling sex life was because his wife felt unsafe around him. It took him […]

86. REIMAGINING THE MEANING OF SAFETY: A LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER’S JOURNEY – WITH KYLE

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IN THIS EPISODE: We delve into Laura’s journey as a 40-year-old mother of three, navigating the intersection of her strong Christian faith and her sexuality. Growing up with little education about sex, Laura found herself prioritizing her partner’s desires in the bedroom while neglecting her own. Struggling to balance her intuition with the teachings of […]

85. FINDING BALANCE IN FAITH, SEX, AND INNER GUIDANCE – WITH LAURA