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IN THIS EPISODE: David’s wife spent years expressing her dissatisfaction with their sex life, repeatedly sharing her feelings, but David remained skeptical. Despite her efforts, he couldn’t accept her perspective. Influenced by adult entertainment and misinformation, he believed he was doing everything right, yet she didn’t respond as expected, leading him to conclude there was […]

90. WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT FOR MEN TO BELIEVE WOMEN? – WITH DAVID

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IN THIS EPISODE: Michele bravely opens up about her tumultuous journey through relationships as a woman in her late 50s. She recounts the harrowing experiences of enduring compulsive lying, cheating, porn and sex addiction, abuse, and a pervasive lack of consent. Amidst the darkness, she discovered a beacon of hope in Janna, whose guidance led […]

89. OVERCOMING BETRAYAL TRAUMA, ADDICTION, & LACK OF SAFETY IN THE BEDROOM – WITH MICHELE

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IN THIS EPISODE: We delve into Raina’s journey of rediscovering her desire for sex within her marriage. Despite a healthy upbringing with decent sexual education, positive body image, and safe and secure sexual experiences, Raina found herself losing interest in intimacy with her husband after getting married. After starting a personal journey which she affectionately […]

88. THE EFFECTS OF CHURCH STIGMA & HYSTERECTOMY ON LOW DESIRE – WITH RAINA

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IN THIS EPISODE: When Lisa took the Wanting It More program a couple of years ago, she never imagined the valuable lessons she learned to improve her low libido would also come in handy when confronting a medical issue. Lisa talks in detail about her struggles with body image anxiety and gynecological exams that accompanied […]

87. LISA’S JOURNEY THROUGH LOW LIBIDO AND LICHEN SCLEROSUS

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IN THIS EPISODE: Kyle’s career in law enforcement defined him as a safe person, dedicating his life to keeping his community and those who live in it safe from harm. Imagine his surprise when he learned the root cause behind his dwindling sex life was because his wife felt unsafe around him. It took him […]

86. REIMAGINING THE MEANING OF SAFETY: A LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER’S JOURNEY – WITH KYLE

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IN THIS EPISODE: We delve into Laura’s journey as a 40-year-old mother of three, navigating the intersection of her strong Christian faith and her sexuality. Growing up with little education about sex, Laura found herself prioritizing her partner’s desires in the bedroom while neglecting her own. Struggling to balance her intuition with the teachings of […]

85. FINDING BALANCE IN FAITH, SEX, AND INNER GUIDANCE – WITH LAURA

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IN THIS EPISODE: In this podcast episode we meet Nate, a devout Christian and father whose misconceptions about intimacy led to strain in his marriage of 15 years. Raised on media for his sexual education, Nate found himself bewildered by the disparity between his expectations and reality in the bedroom. It wasn’t until he and […]

84. A CHRISTIAN HUSBAND’S JOURNEY TO BETTER INTIMACY – WITH NATE

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IN THIS EPISODE: Thilla shares her journey as a first-generation Canadian, shaped by her Sri Lankan heritage and North American upbringing. Raised in a family where discussions about sex were taboo and dating was reserved for an arranged marriage, she faced immense pressure and conflicting messages from both cultures. These challenges left her grappling with […]

83. CROSSING CULTURES: REDEFINING DESIRE IN A DUAL HERITAGE – WITH THILLA

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IN THIS EPISODE: Join Janna in this conversation filled with healing and hope as we delve into a topic often brushed aside: pornography addiction. She sits down with Justin, who bravely shares his 25-year struggle with excessive porn use and the profound impact it had on his relationships and self-esteem. Despite being told it’s ‘normal,’ […]

82. HOW TO HEAL FROM PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION – WITH JUSTIN

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IN THIS EPISODE: In response to countless requests, we’re diving into a topic close to many hearts: how to talk to kids about sex. Meet Christina, a recent graduate of the Wanting It More program, who felt compelled to provide her children with the sexual education she never received. Her journey is all about empowering […]

81. HOW TO TALK TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX – WITH CHRISTINA