IN THIS EPISODE: When asked, “What do you like to do for fun?”, Crissie’s response was, “That’s a hard question for me.” Many women will relate to Crissie’s do-everything-for-everyone-except-myself mentality. This 40-year-old mother of four spent years consumed with providing for the needs of her young family. Figuring out her own needs, wants and enjoyments […]

IN THIS EPISODE: If you’ve ever dealt with painful or uncomfortable sex, this episode is a must listen. For years, Anna tolerated the trauma of painful intercourse. She describes the pain as feeling like rug burn for hours afterward.  She was eventually diagnosed with vaginismus. Although she found pelvic floor therapy helpful, she didn’t feel […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Alyssa is a 31-year-old high school educator who’s been married to her high school sweetheart for 9 years. When she became sexually active in high school, she was terrified of pregnancy. Even though she was using birth control, she was so anxious for weeks afterward that it was hard to function. Once […]

IN THIS EPISODE: On the final day of our latest round, I gathered all the wonderful husbands and wives together for a warm farewell Zoom call. During this heartwarming session, I posed the question, “What’s been your most significant takeaway from this journey?” Their honest responses moved me to tears. At just eight weeks these […]

IN THIS EPISODE: I’m answering the most frequent questions I get about my online program, Wanting It More, which is now open for registration for the Oct./Nov. round. It’s THE BEST online program out there for helping women with low libido want and enjoy sex more, while also supporting their husbands so they can create […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Everything Stuart learned about sex was from what he saw in media. Therefore, he understood sex to be a passionate, dramatic, climatic, sweaty event that occurs frequently and is mind blowing every time. Not surprisingly, this is not the type of sex life that Stuart had in his 12 year marriage. In […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Helen’s biggest realization during Wanting It More was owning the fact that she wasn’t taking responsibility for her own pleasure. Her lack of enjoyment in the sexual experience wasn’t all about her husband and what he was or wasn’t doing for her. She was allowing things to happen in the bedroom that […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Jenn grew up in a conservative Christian household and received her sex education from church events and camps (based on purity culture with the message that sex before marriage is a HUGE sin) and her high school sex ed class (which left her terrified of pregnancy and STDs). Not surprisingly, this education […]

IN THIS EPISODE: There’s a big promise out there that we often hear in our culture…if you wait until marriage to have sex it will be the most united and amazing experience of your life! Yet, for many couples, the opposite tends to be true. Sex can feel awkward, weird, and unsatisfying. The lesson from […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Do you have a hard time saying no to your husband’s sexual advances for fear of hurting his feelings? So many women I teach say they feel internal pressure and duty to give in and get it over with when it comes to sex with their husband. No wonder so many women […]