IN THIS EPISODE: Amanda, 35, has always enjoyed sex. She explored with confidence from an early age and used the term “great sex” to describe her intimate life with her husband. But everything changed when they had kids. As a mother of four, Amanda found that sex transformed from fun and fulfilling into a vicious […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Celeste truly felt like she found her soulmate when she married her husband. She loved him deeply and could be her authentic self in their marriage…except during sex. She couldn’t understand how she could love someone so much yet dislike the sexual experience so intensely. She could never find the right words […]

IN THIS EPISODE: At 51, Heather is finally discovering what truly brings her pleasure in sexual experiences by asking herself, “What do I need?” Although she was once a curious and precocious sexual being, her desire diminished during marriage when sex became an expectation and duty. The traditional formula of what sex should be didn’t […]

IN THIS EPISODE: It’s our 100th episode! To celebrate, I’m announcing a big change: a name change. As I’ve evolved over the years and learned from the couples I’ve served, so has my program. After adding an entire men’s coaching and education program to Wanting It More, I realized the name needed to reflect a […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Crystal is a self-defined good girl. Since childhood, she was expected to, and praised for, doing as she was told and not rocking the boat. While this behavior was effective in her formative years, her passive nature had consequences on multiple levels in her 25-year marriage, including in the bedroom. Crystal shares […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Tyler and his wife struggled with intimacy throughout their 11 years of marriage. After meeting at 16 and waiting until marriage four years later, they both expected that the sexual experience would bring joy and fun to their lives, but it did not. His wife was plagued by pain, and after having […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Emma vividly remembers losing her libido during her honeymoon. She and her husband had waited until marriage to have intercourse for the first time, and both were eagerly anticipating it. Initially, the experience was wonderful, but soon her desire vanished and never returned. For years, she tried everything she could think of […]

IN THIS EPISODE: At 56, Samantha felt like her libido was lost without a map. She had faced medical issues, including adenomyosis and a full hysterectomy, but she knew her diminished desire went deeper than just these physical challenges. Intimacy with her husband had once been enjoyable, but her desire had gradually faded away without […]

IN THIS EPISODE: How and why do men separate the effects of their pornography use from their marriage? Andreas and Janna extensively discuss the rapid development of his addictive use of adult entertainment throughout his life, the reasons why he used it, his hundreds of failed attempts to quit, and what finally worked to become […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Colin grew up with two therapist parents, one of whom was a sex therapist. He learned a lot about emotions, sex, safety, consent, and talking openly from them. These things were really important to him and shaped his core values as he became a man. His wife also thought he was very […]