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Even though you really love your
husband, sex feels like a chore
and a lot of work.

You feel guilty about saying no
all the time.

Sex is hard to talk about and creates
a lot of tension in your marriage.

You wonder if something is
wrong with you...

meet janna

For the first 14 years of my marriage, I would have way rather cleaned the toilet than hop into bed with my husband! Sure, once my engine was revved up a bit, it was okay(ish), but getting there took a serious effort.

We fought about sex all the time and I was DONE feeling used, pressured and like I was the one with the problem!

After years of unsuccessfully trying to find the solution to this frustrating (and lonely) challenge, I eventually trained to be a Marriage Coach and buckled down to develop my own methodology to solve this issue.

What I discovered not only completely fixed the desire mismatch in my marriage, but has now helped thousands of other women and couples do the same!

Hi, I'm 


When it comes to not "wanting it",
I understand it all.

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"I'm rejoicing in pleasure, comfort, and connection with my spouse, and I'm fighting for a nourishing time of connection that I look forward to."


"I now feel more normal, less alone, and more empowered that we can do better, now that we know better. I am tapping into my creativity and joy as I follow my pleasure for the first time."


"We now have consistent sexual experiences where I am in my element: happy and satisfied. I can actually say now, 'I have good sex in my marriage!' "


"I feel so much more free to be me, to figure out what I want and don't want and am learning to be more assertive about it. I have enjoyed our sexual experiences more than I’ve ever had in our 13 years of marriage."


"I had to work hard to change old habits and patterns, but I DID it, with Janna's help and the support of our community. I feel strong. I feel empowered. I feel like I can love myself and my husband again. That is priceless to me."


"My thoughts have changed dramatically. I have practical phrases and tools to use and the nightly stress is GONE. COMPLETELY GONE. Fear is leaving in so many ways and is being replaced by confidence and bravery."


"I have seen MASSIVE CHANGES!! I feel safe and want to be vulnerable in our sex life. I feel more connected and in love with my husband. I feel so excited about our intimacy and how it will continue to evolve, and I know that I AM a sexual woman!!!"

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