IN THIS EPISODE:
What happens when loving someone means letting go of the need to fix them?
Derek shares his journey of realizing that his attempts to rescue and support his wife were unintentionally creating distance between them. After years of trying to pull her out of pain and show her how wonderful life could be, he discovered that what she needed most wasn’t someone to turn on the light—it was someone willing to sit with her in the darkness.
Together, Janna and Derek explore the difference between compassion and rescuing, how shame and discomfort can impact intimacy, and why seeing your partner as “broken” can prevent true connection.
REFERENCES:
Janna’s Programs: Doing It Together, Wanting It More Foundations, Intro Videos for Men & Women
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