IN THIS EPISODE: After 22 years of marriage, Nicole found herself questioning her sex life and wondering if she wanted to be married at all. Like many women, raising children, supporting her husband, and putting everyone else’s needs first had left little room for her own desires and pleasure. In this episode, she shares her […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Janna sits down with 27-year-old Carrie to discuss her journey with low sexual desire, sexual trauma, religious shame, and years of struggling to enjoy sex in her marriage. After trying therapy, supplements, and countless conversations with her husband, Carrie began to wonder if she was simply broken or if a satisfying sex […]

IN THIS EPISODE: After decades of marriage, motherhood, and putting everyone else’s needs first, Katie found herself struggling with desire and feeling increasingly disconnected from her husband. She had learned to people-please, avoid conflict, and say yes even when she didn’t really want to—until intimacy began to feel more like an obligation than connection. Katie […]

IN THIS EPISODE: After his wife’s cancer treatment and early menopause changed their intimate relationship, James felt lonely, rejected, and increasingly hopeless. They loved each other deeply and had a great marriage in so many ways—but mismatched desire and physical intimacy remained the one problem they couldn’t seem to solve. In this episode, James shares […]

IN THIS EPISODE: What really happens when couples commit to eight weeks of Doing It Together? At the end of every round, Janna brings the couples together for a farewell call and asks one simple but powerful question: What surprised you most about your journey? In this episode, you’ll hear directly from couples who just […]

IN THIS EPISODE: On today’s podcast episode I’m offering the audio version of my popular free class, “The Truth About Women’s Libido: Why Everything You’ve Tried Hasn’t Worked and What To Do Instead.” Listen to understand the steps required to co-create a sex life that both partners can look forward to. REFERENCES: Janna’s Programs: Doing […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Talking about sex can be hard—especially when you’re worried that saying what you really want will hurt your partner’s feelings or start an argument. In this episode, Janna talks with Carrie and Ryan about the communication patterns that kept them stuck for years and what finally helped Carrie find her voice and […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Motherhood, changing family dynamics, and midlife transitions can change much more than your daily routine—they can change your identity, your marriage, and your sexual desire. In this conversation, Janna and Mindy talk about the enormous transition into motherhood, what happens when your kids need you less, and why becoming an “empty nester” […]

IN THIS EPISODE: When Ben asked his wife of 31 years how often she actually wanted to have sex, her answer — “almost never” — completely shocked him. In this conversation, Ben shares what he couldn’t see before Doing It Together, what happened when he chose curiosity over defensiveness, and how he’s learning to create […]

IN THIS EPISODE: In this episode, Sara shares the powerful journey of realizing that much of what she believed she was supposed to want sexually wasn’t actually what she wanted. She opens up about feeling inadequate, questioning what was wrong with her, and the relief that came from learning to recognize a “no” in her […]