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IN THIS EPISODE: What really happens when couples commit to eight weeks of Doing It Together? At the end of every round, Janna brings the couples together for a farewell call and asks one simple but powerful question: What surprised you most about your journey? In this episode, you’ll hear directly from couples who just […]

209. Real Couples Share Their Doing It Together Experience

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IN THIS EPISODE: On today’s podcast episode I’m offering the audio version of my popular free class, “The Truth About Women’s Libido: Why Everything You’ve Tried Hasn’t Worked and What To Do Instead.” Listen to understand the steps required to co-create a sex life that both partners can look forward to. REFERENCES: Janna’s Programs: Doing […]

209. The Truth About Women’s Libido

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IN THIS EPISODE: Talking about sex can be hard—especially when you’re worried that saying what you really want will hurt your partner’s feelings or start an argument. In this episode, Janna talks with Carrie and Ryan about the communication patterns that kept them stuck for years and what finally helped Carrie find her voice and […]

208. How to Talk About Sex Without Fighting: She Found Her Voice, He Learned to Listen – with Carrie and Ryan

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IN THIS EPISODE: Motherhood, changing family dynamics, and midlife transitions can change much more than your daily routine—they can change your identity, your marriage, and your sexual desire. In this conversation, Janna and Mindy talk about the enormous transition into motherhood, what happens when your kids need you less, and why becoming an “empty nester” […]

207. How Midlife Changes Your Sex Life – with Mindy

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IN THIS EPISODE: When Ben asked his wife of 31 years how often she actually wanted to have sex, her answer — “almost never” — completely shocked him. In this conversation, Ben shares what he couldn’t see before Doing It Together, what happened when he chose curiosity over defensiveness, and how he’s learning to create […]

206. “Almost Never”: What This Husband Learned About Their Sex Life – with Ben

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IN THIS EPISODE: In this episode, Sara shares the powerful journey of realizing that much of what she believed she was supposed to want sexually wasn’t actually what she wanted. She opens up about feeling inadequate, questioning what was wrong with her, and the relief that came from learning to recognize a “no” in her […]

205. Learning to Trust Your “No” – with Sara

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IN THIS EPISODE: Katie spent years believing her sex life was good enough, until she began questioning how much she was actually enjoying it and how much she was simply tolerating. In this conversation, she shares how marriage, children, menopause, and cultural messages gradually disconnected her from her own desires. Katie and Janna explore why […]

204. Are You Going Through the Motions? – with Katie

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IN THIS EPISODE: What if your anger isn’t the problem—but a sign that something finally makes sense? In this episode, Janna sits down with Renee to explore the surprising emotion that surfaced as she began unlearning decades of harmful messages about women, sex, and marriage. What she once believed was a personal failure turned out […]

203. What Your Anger Is Trying to Tell You – with Renee

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IN THIS EPISODE: What if sex was never meant to create connection—but to celebrate the connection that’s already there? In this episode, Janna sits down with John for a thoughtful and honest conversation about one of the most common dynamics in long-term relationships: when one partner looks to sex for closeness while the other needs […]

202. What Sex Was Never Meant to Do – with John

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IN THIS EPISODE: When Penny began questioning the messages she’d received about sex, she uncovered something far deeper than a lack of desire. For years, she’d been taught that sex was something she owed her husband rather than an experience she was allowed to enjoy herself. Penny shares how those beliefs shaped her marriage, her […]

201. What Happened When She Stopped Believing She Was the Problem – with Penny | Ep. 201