IN THIS EPISODE: Justin joins me for a foundational episode in which we zoom out and discuss the role that men play when their wives have “low libido”.  He starts off by sharing how he felt when his wife stopped wanting to have sex with him- the feelings of confusion and worrying if he had […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Many women I talk to struggle enjoying physical touch during sex. They don’t know their experience can be any other way so they continue trying to enjoy things they don’t like and then label themselves as “non-sexual”.  In our conversation, my husband and I discuss: • why so many women push themselves […]

IN THIS EPISODE: In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most important elements of moving towards freedom in your relationship and that is…a reset from sex. It’s something that you may have heard many times on the podcast in interviews with alumni of Doing It Together but it’s the first […]

IN THIS EPISODE: I recorded a short and sweet solo episode for you but really it’s a love-letter to my former self. Anxiety (just a different term for “fear”) is telling you something and if you are feeling it around sex, there is something to learn. And I promise you, it’s not that you are […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Since we’re headed into a time of the year where there may be some extra space as a couple, I thought it would be a good idea to talk about expectations around sex and special occasions.  I know this happens more often with birthdays and vacations but it’s possible that in the […]

IN THIS EPISODE: The idea that men are so simple to please and women are a difficult maze of sensitive knobs and dials, often leaves female pleasure forgotten about. But what if something else was happening? What if our culture has only taught men and women about men’s bodies and pleasure? What if women’s genitals […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Janna and her husband discuss the ins and outs of talking about sex as a couple- why so many people struggle with it, their personal challenges with communication, and what they’re currently experimenting with to try to improve. REFERENCES: Doing It Together Wanting It More Foundations FREE 3-Part Video Series for Women: […]

IN THIS EPISODE: It’s been a dream of mine to be able to chat with my daughter on the podcast and get her take on some of the concepts we discuss here. In this episode, we touch on what she is learning in her class about consent and rape culture, her take on what’s happening […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Over the last 8 years Janna has specialized in helping women with low libido, she frequently hears them share about how difficult it is to talk with their husbands about personal hygiene. “My husband always has bad breath.” “I wish he would shave before coming to bed.” “Is it too much to […]

IN THIS EPISODE: If you’ve ever felt emotionally disconnected during sex, you’re not alone. Janna and her husband Dwayne talk through the common reasons this can happen (for both men and women), how to recognize when you’re feeling out of sync, how to share that with your partner, and the steps you can take to […]