IN THIS EPISODE: My podcast guest is Dr. Kervins Clement and his story is one that I hear about all the time- where a dependency on porn use and masturbation is justified as helping the relationship when, in fact, it often does the opposite.  In this episode we explore: This is a thoughtful, nuanced conversation […]

IN THIS EPISODE: We’re re-releasing one of our most listened to episodes! If you’ve been curious about what the concepts of Doing It Together can do for your sex life and marriage in the long term, you’ll want to listen to Justin and Sandra’s story. Married for 19 years, they took Doing It Together two […]

IN THIS EPISODE: There is no shortcut to heal from a toxic world that has tricked us into thinking sex is just a series of acts designed to physically stimulate us. The only way through is to slow down, unlearn and heal- not just for your marriage but for your well-being.  It’s understanding safety, not […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Justin joins me for a foundational episode in which we zoom out and discuss the role that men play when their wives have “low libido”.  He starts off by sharing how he felt when his wife stopped wanting to have sex with him- the feelings of confusion and worrying if he had […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Many women I talk to struggle enjoying physical touch during sex. They don’t know their experience can be any other way so they continue trying to enjoy things they don’t like and then label themselves as “non-sexual”.  In our conversation, my husband and I discuss: • why so many women push themselves […]

IN THIS EPISODE: In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most important elements of moving towards freedom in your relationship and that is…a reset from sex. It’s something that you may have heard many times on the podcast in interviews with alumni of Doing It Together but it’s the first […]

IN THIS EPISODE: I recorded a short and sweet solo episode for you but really it’s a love-letter to my former self. Anxiety (just a different term for “fear”) is telling you something and if you are feeling it around sex, there is something to learn. And I promise you, it’s not that you are […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Since we’re headed into a time of the year where there may be some extra space as a couple, I thought it would be a good idea to talk about expectations around sex and special occasions.  I know this happens more often with birthdays and vacations but it’s possible that in the […]

IN THIS EPISODE: The idea that men are so simple to please and women are a difficult maze of sensitive knobs and dials, often leaves female pleasure forgotten about. But what if something else was happening? What if our culture has only taught men and women about men’s bodies and pleasure? What if women’s genitals […]

IN THIS EPISODE: Janna and her husband discuss the ins and outs of talking about sex as a couple- why so many people struggle with it, their personal challenges with communication, and what they’re currently experimenting with to try to improve. REFERENCES: Doing It Together Wanting It More Foundations FREE 3-Part Video Series for Women: […]