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IN THIS EPISODE: Growing up as a child of color, Keith learned early on what was and wasn’t acceptable to express around his family and friends, especially the men and boys. While the women in his life supported his artistic side and sensitivity, Keith feared being labeled as weak or ridiculed by the men. His […]

134. Breaking Free from the Traps of Tough-Guy Culture – with Keith (Part 1)

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IN THIS EPISODE: In this enlightening episode, 40-year-old Brandi shares her inspiring journey of self-discovery and rekindled desire. Growing up in southern Utah within the Mormon faith, Brandi’s sex education was rooted in the belief of abstinence until marriage. After her first marriage ended due to years of betrayal, she ventured into the eye-opening world […]

133. Adventures in Online Dating, Faith, Betrayal & Low Desire – with Brandi

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IN THIS EPISODE: Kate and her husband started out having what she describes as a great sex life. It felt exciting, easy and fun and her pleasure was easily accessible. As the years passed and life got more stressful and overwhelming, her desire plummeted. She couldn’t understand what happened. She started keeping a calendar to […]

132. Feeling Broken & Alone While Searching for Answers About Low Libido – with Kate

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IN THIS EPISODE: On the final day of the last round of Doing It Together, Janna and her team gathered all the husbands and wives for a farewell Zoom call. During this heartwarming session, she asked, “What’s been your most unexpected takeaway from this program?” The couples’ honest responses are deeply moving. After just eight […]

131. Couples Share How Their Relationship Thrived by Doing It Together

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IN THIS EPISODE: In this special episode, Janna talks with her coaching teammates, Justin and Melissa, about the upcoming round of Doing It Together, what couples can expect from the program, and common questions they are asked about low libido and sexual connection from both men and women. Justin and Melissa answer: If you are […]

130. The Doing It Together Team Answers Your Questions – with Janna, Melissa & Justin

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IN THIS EPISODE: From a young age, Kris learned to suppress his emotions and handle his feelings alone. His friends, family, and culture reinforced this mindset, showing him quick fixes for managing his growing anxiety, such as drinking alcohol, using drugs, or turning to adult entertainment. Over time, he became an expert at burying his […]

129. Understanding Anxiety and Emotional Suppression in Men – with Kris

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IN THIS EPISODE: Chloe and her husband, married for 12 years, struggled with their intimate relationship from the very beginning. However, they found it difficult to have honest conversations with each other. Both raised in Britain with the belief in keeping a “stiff upper lip,” discussing emotions or sensitive topics didn’t come naturally to them. […]

128. Overcoming Years of Silent Tension & Unspoken Emotions – with Chloe

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IN THIS EPISODE: Tim and his wife have been married for 30 years. Their initial connection was deep and fulfilling, but once they got married, something changed. His wife began to touch him less and less, and Tim felt rejected and confused. This led to frequent arguments. After their three kids moved out, Tim hoped […]

127. Tim’s Journey from Confusion to Clarity in His 30-Year Marriage

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IN THIS EPISODE: 33-year-old Bri was convinced something was wrong with her. She hadn’t been intimate with her husband in over two years, and their once passionate relationship had dwindled to a series of weekly arguments and frustrations on both sides. She was convinced she had low libido because she was too young to have […]

126. “I’m too young to not want sex” – with Bri

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IN THIS EPISODE: Jason describes himself as an adventurous thrill-seeker, always in search of a rush. When he discovered the internet in college and the types of images and videos that could be accessed secretly and anonymously, it led him down a dark path marked by decades of manipulation, lying, and gaslighting as he tried […]

125. The Foundations For a Life of Secrecy & Lies – with Jason