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IN THIS EPISODE: One of the most common questions we get is: “How do I talk to my kids about sex?” In today’s episode, Janna sits down with her teammates, Melissa C. and Melissa W., to discuss how they approach these conversations with their kids, whose ages range from 6 to 21. They share stories […]

139. How to Overcome Fear to Have Honest Conversations With Kids About Sex – with Janna & Her Teammates

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IN THIS EPISODE: It’s been a year since Chris and his wife of 21 years took the Doing It Together course, and he’s here to give an honest update on how things are going. For two decades, Chris and his wife struggled with intimacy, trying everything they could think of to improve their connection. From […]

138. One Year Update After Taking Doing It Together – with Chris

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IN THIS EPISODE: Luke and his wife have been married for 25 years and have struggled with sex through most of that time. Things changed after kids and his wife experienced post-partum depression. Her libido plumeted and didn’t come back. Luke took the stance that this was her problem to solve and waited for years […]

137. Why Low Libido Is a Couple’s Issue, Not Just Hers to Solve – with Luke

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IN THIS EPISODE: Janna discovered Jaime and Josh through their shared Instagram profile, @marriageishappening, and was so moved by their marriage story that she invited them to join her on the podcast. Married at 21 with four kids soon after, they initially adhered to traditional gender roles—Jaime stayed at home while Josh worked outside the […]

136. Escaping the Constraints of Traditional Gender Roles in Marriage – with Jaime & Josh Fisher

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IN THIS EPISODE: Keith continues his story from Episode 134, diving deeper into his experience of starting the Doing It Together (DIT) program with his wife. Having gone through his own therapy, Keith thought he was way ahead of the game when he began DIT. However, he quickly realized the role he played in his […]

135. Are You Truly Listening to What Your Partner Is Saying? – with Keith (Part 2)

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IN THIS EPISODE: Growing up as a child of color, Keith learned early on what was and wasn’t acceptable to express around his family and friends, especially the men and boys. While the women in his life supported his artistic side and sensitivity, Keith feared being labeled as weak or ridiculed by the men. His […]

134. Breaking Free from the Traps of Tough-Guy Culture – with Keith (Part 1)

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IN THIS EPISODE: In this enlightening episode, 40-year-old Brandi shares her inspiring journey of self-discovery and rekindled desire. Growing up in southern Utah within the Mormon faith, Brandi’s sex education was rooted in the belief of abstinence until marriage. After her first marriage ended due to years of betrayal, she ventured into the eye-opening world […]

133. Adventures in Online Dating, Faith, Betrayal & Low Desire – with Brandi

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IN THIS EPISODE: Kate and her husband started out having what she describes as a great sex life. It felt exciting, easy and fun and her pleasure was easily accessible. As the years passed and life got more stressful and overwhelming, her desire plummeted. She couldn’t understand what happened. She started keeping a calendar to […]

132. Feeling Broken & Alone While Searching for Answers About Low Libido – with Kate

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IN THIS EPISODE: On the final day of the last round of Doing It Together, Janna and her team gathered all the husbands and wives for a farewell Zoom call. During this heartwarming session, she asked, “What’s been your most unexpected takeaway from this program?” The couples’ honest responses are deeply moving. After just eight […]

131. Couples Share How Their Relationship Thrived by Doing It Together

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IN THIS EPISODE: In this special episode, Janna talks with her coaching teammates, Justin and Melissa, about the upcoming round of Doing It Together, what couples can expect from the program, and common questions they are asked about low libido and sexual connection from both men and women. Justin and Melissa answer: If you are […]

130. The Doing It Together Team Answers Your Questions – with Janna, Melissa & Justin