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IN THIS EPISODE: Join Janna in this conversation filled with healing and hope as we delve into a topic often brushed aside: pornography addiction. She sits down with Justin, who bravely shares his 25-year struggle with excessive porn use and the profound impact it had on his relationships and self-esteem. Despite being told it’s ‘normal,’ […]

82. HOW TO HEAL FROM PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION – WITH JUSTIN

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IN THIS EPISODE: In response to countless requests, we’re diving into a topic close to many hearts: how to talk to kids about sex. Meet Christina, a recent graduate of the Wanting It More program, who felt compelled to provide her children with the sexual education she never received. Her journey is all about empowering […]

81. HOW TO TALK TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX – WITH CHRISTINA

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IN THIS EPISODE: James had no reason to believe the ways he showed his wife affection, both sexual and non, was at all off-base. Afterall, he’d faithfully followed the rulebook he’d been taught in locker rooms and adult magazines throughout his 70 years and had success. He loved to look at and touch his wife […]

80. UNDERSTANDING SEXUAL CONSENT, SAFETY & DESIRE AT 70 – WITH JAMES

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IN THIS EPISODE: Join Janna and her special guest, Melissa, the WIM Community Coordinator, in this heart-to-heart conversation about the transformative Wanting It More program. Discover who this incredible program is tailor-made for, as they share their personal journeys of dealing with low libido in marriage. Explore the diverse issues the program can address, and […]

79. IS WANTING IT MORE THE RIGHT PROGRAM TO SOLVE MY LOW LIBIDO PROBLEM?

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IN THIS EPISODE: William had it in his head that he wasn’t the problem when it came to his wife’s low sexual desire. Afterall, he was doing everything he had been taught to do to satisfy his wife…the only problem was his teachers were other men, our toxic culture, and pornography. William talks to Janna […]

78. THE VALUE OF MEN DISCUSSING REAL-LIFE SEXUAL STRUGGLES TOGETHER – WITH WILLIAM

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IN THIS EPISODE: Renee opens up to Janna about her six-year marriage to her white husband, exploring the intricacies of their age and ethnicity differences that created a soupy mix of misunderstandings around sexual desire, and her feelings of low libido. Renee, a biracial woman, brings a compassionate and curious lens to her experiences and […]

77. THE INTRICATE INTERSECTION OF RACE, GENDER, SEX & DESIRE – WITH RENEE

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IN THIS EPISODE: From the early stages of her life, Rowen discovered immense fulfillment in the roles of people-pleasing and caretaking for those around her. However, she later realized that the price she paid for these roles was steep—it left her clueless about her own wants and needs.  As this pattern extended into her intimate […]

76. HOW TO STOP PEOPLE PLEASING & SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF IN THE BEDROOM – WITH ROWEN

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IN THIS EPISODE: Kate and Janna unravel the complex dynamics of Kate’s 19-year marriage marked by a common tradition – the recurrent gift of lingerie.  Although intended as a sweet gesture, these presents took a toll on Kate, leaving her feeling embarrassed and awkward. As the duo discusses the cultural implications of gifting lingerie, Kate’s […]

75. WHY DO GIFTS OF LINGERIE LOWER MY DESIRE FOR SEX? – WITH KATE

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IN THIS EPISODE: Throughout their 17 year union, the presence of pornography cast a shadow over Sandra and her husband’s relationship, steadily eroding its foundation. Initially, Sandra dismissed it, swayed by the cultural message that incorporating porn could add a spark to their connection. However, as time unfolded, she witnessed alarming shifts in her husband’s […]

74. HOW TO RECOVER INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE AFTER BETRAYAL AND PORN ADDICTION – WITH SANDRA

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IN THIS EPISODE: When Lee initially encountered Janna’s messages about sex on her podcast, he felt victimized. It seemed to him as though blame for bad sex in marriage was being cast solely on men, leading him to internalize it as his personal responsibility. However, with time, he gradually grasped the profound message she aimed […]

73. FROM CONFUSION TO CONNECTION: EMPOWERING MEN TO TRANSFORM BEDROOM DYNAMICS – WITH LEE