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I just received an email a couple of days ago from a woman who said I was charging too much money for my services. If you have ever wondered why marriage coaches, therapists, counsellors, etc. charge so much money, or if you’ve ever wondered that about me, this blog post is for you. Yes, I […]

You Charge HOW Much Money?!

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For the longest time, my husband and I had a date night on Friday. It was one of the big things that we had done, trying to make our marriage successful, and survive the years with young kids (I’m sure a lot of you can relate). However – there was a big problem with our […]

The #1 Rule of Date Night

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The world is going crazy for Scott Moir and Tessa Virtue, Canadian figure skaters. They’ve just won the 2018 gold medal for their free dance skate in the Pyeongchang Winter Olympics. Everybody wants them to be in a relationship, even though they have said they are just friends. I want to kind of dissect a […]

Why we Love Scott and Tessa

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The last couple of days, I’ve been having to deal with some really scary stuff for me, and it all revolves around taxes and GST garbley-goop (yes, that’s a word, I just invented it). If you’re Canadian, you’ll know what I’m talking about. I’ve been on the phone with the government, panicking and feeling generally […]

You Need Each Other

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I think it’s so important to discuss how marriage really is – beyond the romantic fantasies of amazing couples and the happy selfie snaps on Facebook. So, in the spirit of truthfulness, I’m going to share with you how my Valentine’s Day went this year – how I really failed at it, and how my […]

Valentine’s Day Fail!

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Today I was in the kitchen making tuna and rice. It’s Saturday morning and we literally have nothing in our house. Do you guys ever have that? Where you’re like, “I’m hungry and there’s literally nothing to make except for leftovers and a can of tuna”? Well, that’s where I was at. I was really […]

Let him care for you.

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I just got off the phone with a really good friend that I haven’t spoken to in a long time, and surprise-surprise, guess what we ended up talking about? Well, yes, there are lots of things, but marriage came up, because generally speaking, I can share my passion with my friends. She was telling me […]

Encourage Your Husband

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Okay. This is a hard topic to talk about, and it includes a lot of sensitive stuff – but it’s something that we really need to talk about…Porn.

We Need to Talk About Porn

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A woman in my group today posted an article from Scary Mommy, which I love. They speak the truth and they’re very real. The article was asking, why do we have to ask our husbands to help with the housework? They should just know to do it. We’re tired of asking and being nags and […]

Husbands and Housework

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I had the absolute pleasure of talking to a husband last night whose wife when through my program, “30 Days to Wanting It More”. I thought I’d talk a little bit about our conversation (I won’t mention names, of course), and share why a lot of the husbands of the program participants hate me in […]

Why Husbands Hate Me