Time for a little tough love​. I see asking “Why?” as being an unhelpful question to ask when you’re looking at your needs as a woman. Stop the diagnosing! Us women commonly diagnose ourselves instead of simply getting our needs met. I had to learn to stop doing this years ago, otherwise I wasn’t going […]

Today, I’m sharing the simple way I teach my clients and participants to communicate boundaries. It’s helpful when their partners are struggling with the concept of boundaries. Or, if they don’t know why boundaries are needed in the first place. Boundaries are just facts. Boundaries are really simple. They’re just facts. That’s it! Boundaries are […]

I’ve got a story to tell you that I’m betting you can relate to. The other day, my husband put eggs in the pan for his breakfast and then walked away. The ‘nice’ thing to do would be to stir the eggs so they didn’t burn. But they were his eggs. He knew the plan. […]

Sexy talk does nothing for me.  By sexy talk, I mean the stereotypical phrases you’ve heard before, like “You’re so hot” or “I want you so bad right now.” These words shut down desire faster than a lightning bolt. It makes sense because there is a lot of pressure behind these phrases. Are you suddenly […]

I hear from so many women that they don’t know what they want in bed with their husbands. Their husbands are asking, “Tell me what you want. What should we do next?” But there’s a lot of panic, anxiety, and stress in figuring out how to “make it work.” I have three simple but profound […]

Sexually empowered… Being an empowered woman in the bedroom… What did you think of just now reading those words? What are the images that pop up into your mind? When I tell someone that I am a sex coach, they’ll often imagine that I’m having these wild and crazy experiences with my husband or maybe […]

“How do you talk to your husband about sex without hurting his feelings?” I get that question asked a lot. In fact, I have seen so many women come through the Wanting it More program having never really talked to their husband about how they’re truly feeling. Some women have been forcing themselves to have sex like three times a week and when they come into the Wanting it More program, they’re like, “Uh, surprise. I’ve never really wanted it and I’ve never really enjoyed it,” and it’s a big shocker. Especially if you’ve been married for a really long time.

Have you ever felt like your sex life was a lie? Or asked yourself: “Why don’t I want sex like ever? Why does it feel unnatural, not spontaneous, and definitely not hot and exciting like in the movies? What is wrong with me?” What You’ve Probably Thought Before “Because I know that everybody else in […]

“How do you talk to your husband about sex without hurting his feelings?” I get that question asked a lot. In fact, I have seen so many women come through the Wanting it More program having never really talked to their husband about how they’re truly feeling. Some women have been forcing themselves to have sex like three times a week and when they come into the Wanting it More program, they’re like, “Uh, surprise. I’ve never really wanted it and I’ve never really enjoyed it,” and it’s a big shocker. Especially if you’ve been married for a really long time.

“How do you talk to your husband about sex without hurting his feelings?” I get that question asked a lot. In fact, I have seen so many women come through the Wanting it More program having never really talked to their husband about how they’re truly feeling. Some women have been forcing themselves to have sex like three times a week and when they come into the Wanting it More program, they’re like, “Uh, surprise. I’ve never really wanted it and I’ve never really enjoyed it,” and it’s a big shocker. Especially if you’ve been married for a really long time.