“How do you talk to your husband about sex without hurting his feelings?” I get that question asked a lot. In fact, I have seen so many women come through the Wanting it More program having never really talked to their husband about how they’re truly feeling. Some women have been forcing themselves to have sex like three times a week and when they come into the Wanting it More program, they’re like, “Uh, surprise. I’ve never really wanted it and I’ve never really enjoyed it,” and it’s a big shocker. Especially if you’ve been married for a really long time.

“How do you talk to your husband about sex without hurting his feelings?” I get that question asked a lot. In fact, I have seen so many women come through the Wanting it More program having never really talked to their husband about how they’re truly feeling. Some women have been forcing themselves to have sex like three times a week and when they come into the Wanting it More program, they’re like, “Uh, surprise. I’ve never really wanted it and I’ve never really enjoyed it,” and it’s a big shocker. Especially if you’ve been married for a really long time.

Today, I’m going to be sharing something I’m really excited about because we are often told that increasing our libido, and wanting sex more, however, you want to say it, is difficult. We’re not told that explicitly, but we’re told that in so many subtle, small ways in the fact that there’s no simple guidance […]

The Myth of the Missionary Position. I’m so excited about this blog because it drives me crazy that when people think of sex, they think of the missionary position-which is horrible for women in so many ways. And it’s definitely something that I held on a pedestal as the ultimate pure way to have sex […]

Today I want to talk about something that I am familiar with, and that is the effect that depression has on the bedroom, with your husband, having sex. And I’m talking about that because I am Janna Denton-Howes and I am a sex and intimacy coach for married women, so I have some qualifications when […]

I used to struggle with anxiety a lot. It started when I was maybe about nine years old. I was living in China at the time, my parents were teaching English and I noticed that I had a little black spot on my tooth, and in my little, child brain, I knew that we would […]

I don’t have chronic pain, but my husband does. So maybe I have a little credibility when it comes to talking about this topic. I also counselled my very good friend who deals with chronic pain in her life as well. I say that because I never really like talking about topics in which I […]

Today, I want to talk to you about how to enjoy sex as a highly sensitive person. If you don’t know what a highly sensitive person is then you’re in for a treat, because finding out that I was one was a life-changing experience. I thought I had a generalized anxiety disorder but it turns […]

Hello, my friends. Today, I want to talk to you about something really fun and important, and that is how to have an orgasm with your husband. Because a lot of women can orgasm on their own, but then when they add another person into the mix, it just doesn’t work. And for so many […]

Let’s talk about pleasure. Yes, I’m talking about sexual pleasure but I also often will talk about everyday pleasure. But today I’m talking about sexual pleasure. My name is Janna Denton-Howes. I’m a sex coach for married women and I want to talk about pleasure, but more specifically orgasm. Because orgasm, the ability to orgasm, […]