Painful sex is something that a lot of women struggle with. My friend Sue was one of those women. Sue experienced pain during penetrative sex as soon as she was sexually active.  Sue tried to get help for the pain. She tried: Different doctors Medicated creams Pelvic floor therapy Dilators Even after all of that, […]

Today I’m so excited to come here and talk to you about how to start sex. You might want to be intimate together, you might set aside some time to do it but the common struggle is how do you begin? It can feel really awkward and uncomfortable because nobody’s taught you how to start […]

“How do you talk to your husband about sex without hurting his feelings?” I get that question asked a lot. In fact, I have seen so many women come through the Wanting it More program having never really talked to their husband about how they’re truly feeling. Some women have been forcing themselves to have sex like three times a week and when they come into the Wanting it More program, they’re like, “Uh, surprise. I’ve never really wanted it and I’ve never really enjoyed it,” and it’s a big shocker. Especially if you’ve been married for a really long time.

Have you ever felt like your sex life was a lie? Or asked yourself: “Why don’t I want sex like ever? Why does it feel unnatural, not spontaneous, and definitely not hot and exciting like in the movies? What is wrong with me?” What You’ve Probably Thought Before “Because I know that everybody else in […]

“How do you talk to your husband about sex without hurting his feelings?” I get that question asked a lot. In fact, I have seen so many women come through the Wanting it More program having never really talked to their husband about how they’re truly feeling. Some women have been forcing themselves to have sex like three times a week and when they come into the Wanting it More program, they’re like, “Uh, surprise. I’ve never really wanted it and I’ve never really enjoyed it,” and it’s a big shocker. Especially if you’ve been married for a really long time.

“How do you talk to your husband about sex without hurting his feelings?” I get that question asked a lot. In fact, I have seen so many women come through the Wanting it More program having never really talked to their husband about how they’re truly feeling. Some women have been forcing themselves to have sex like three times a week and when they come into the Wanting it More program, they’re like, “Uh, surprise. I’ve never really wanted it and I’ve never really enjoyed it,” and it’s a big shocker. Especially if you’ve been married for a really long time.

Today, I’m going to be sharing something I’m really excited about because we are often told that increasing our libido, and wanting sex more, however, you want to say it, is difficult. We’re not told that explicitly, but we’re told that in so many subtle, small ways in the fact that there’s no simple guidance […]

The Myth of the Missionary Position. I’m so excited about this blog because it drives me crazy that when people think of sex, they think of the missionary position-which is horrible for women in so many ways. And it’s definitely something that I held on a pedestal as the ultimate pure way to have sex […]

Today I want to talk about something that I am familiar with, and that is the effect that depression has on the bedroom, with your husband, having sex. And I’m talking about that because I am Janna Denton-Howes and I am a sex and intimacy coach for married women, so I have some qualifications when […]

I used to struggle with anxiety a lot. It started when I was maybe about nine years old. I was living in China at the time, my parents were teaching English and I noticed that I had a little black spot on my tooth, and in my little, child brain, I knew that we would […]