We’ve all been there. Emotions bubble up and reactions get going and you find yourself arguing – sometimes very heatedly – in front of the kids. Their eyes are wide, they might be showing some signs of distress, or you might just think that they’re busy on their iPad. Whatever it is, it does affect […]

I know that one of the number one things women like or need or crave in a marriage is to feel safe, connected, protected. Like they’re on a team with their husband. In this post, I’m going to talk about one of the most exciting things that I have ever developed- and it’s also giving […]

I want to speak from the heart, and just simply share the message that you are not too much. You are not too introverted or extroverted, too needy or enthusiastic, or anything like that. You are who you need to be in your relationship, and I want you to stop trying or wanting to be […]

Today, I’m going to talk about the four traps that couples get into after having kids. If you want to know what they are and how to avoid them, or what to do instead, keep on reading!

Today I am going to be talking about how to forgive and move past an event that hurt you. Maybe you’re having a hard time getting over it, so we’re using my favourite technique. Watch the video below or keep reading to find out!

There are many ways to get rid of resentment. Today, I’m going to give you the one that has been the most successful- both with clients and in my own life. Before I do that, I want to introduce myself. My name is Janna Denton-Howes. I am a marriage coach. I am also the creator […]

For many years in my marriage, I felt like I was in a little tiny box with my sexuality, and it was so uncomfortable. I felt stuck and suffocated in there. I have since come to realize that it was the box of distorted male sexuality which our culture promotes. In this post, I’m going […]

I get asked all the time. “How do I tell my husband that I don’t like sex very much?” I’m going to tell you my advice, but before I do that, let me introduce myself. My name is Janna Denton-Howes, and I’m a marriage coach. I also go by husband whisperer and chief libido officer. […]

Sex doesn’t have to be so darn serious! Today I’m going to share five funny sex moments of real life couples. Keep on reading if you want to know more!

I really believe that so much of the struggle that couples are dealing with when it comes to sex is trying to emulate “movie sex” rather than going for the real sex. My intention with this post is to help you focus on what really matters, not what you think should matter, and start to […]